Ken Mehlman: 'I am Sorry' for Harming Gay People During 2004 Bush Campaign
In an article in Salon, former RNC Chair Ken Mehlman apologizes for the first time for harm done to gays in his 2004 position as campaign manager for President Bush, in which conservative voters were strategically driven to the polls by anti-gay ballot measures. While Mehlman has previously expressed regret that he hadn't come out earlier and been able to influence his party in ways beneficial to it and the gay community, this is the first time he has directly apologized for his efforts in 2004.
“At a personal level, I wish I had spoken out against the effort,” he says. “As I’ve been involved in the fight for marriage equality, one of the things I’ve learned is how many people were harmed by the campaigns in which I was involved. I apologize to them and tell them I am sorry. While there have been recent victories, this could still be a long struggle in which there will be setbacks, and I’ll do my part to be helpful.”
In 2011, Mehlman personally lobbied 13 New York state Republican legislators to help pass the state’s same-sex marriage law, and did the same with 10 Republican U.S. senators during the congressional battle to repeal “don’t ask, don’t tell.” Although he is still a loyal Republican — he recently contributed to a fundraiser for House Speaker John Boehner, a gay marriage opponent — a month ago Mehlman published an Op-Ed in the conservative Manchester Union-Leader in which he explained to conservatives and Republicans why supporting same-sex marriage venerates their beliefs not only in individual and economic freedoms, but personal responsibility and family values.
Mehlman was also reportedly lobbying behind-the-scenes on marriage equality measures in New Hampshire and Maryland.




Don't even get me started.
He may have come out publicly after 2004 but you can't tell me he didn't know he was gay then and it didn't do a da*n thing to keep him from promoting homophobia as a political weapon. And now he's supporting Boehner?
Eff off and die, Ken, your "apology" is just more of the self-serving BS we've come to expect from you and every other GOP gay sociopath.
Posted by: Caliban | Mar 2, 2012 11:04:35 AM
Thank you, thank you, TJ. ;-)
Posted by: Ryaninsacto | Mar 2, 2012 11:05:15 AM
What exactly is wrong with rainbow flags, and what's wrong with not conforming to 1950's gender roles? And I'm no scholar, but I'm pretty sure it wasn't closeted conservative choirboys who got the gay rights movement up and running.
What's with all these self-loathing worms who preach "traditional family values" when the camera's turned on, and then go to their hotel room to suck off a rent boy?
Posted by: Jeff | Mar 2, 2012 11:05:44 AM
Take a good look, gay men and boys around the world. Sear it into your memory. That is the face of a man who should never be able to get laid in the U.S. ever again. Let him go to his grave celibate for what he's done and continues to do.
Posted by: Michael | Mar 2, 2012 11:14:24 AM
Yes, he's so sorry that now he's sucking off another Republican Boehner.
Posted by: Danny Berry | Mar 2, 2012 11:18:59 AM
Evil
Posted by: Alex | Mar 2, 2012 11:31:01 AM
You're not sorry enough.
Posted by: Matt | Mar 2, 2012 11:37:20 AM
RYAN IN SACTO - oh no, all thanks go to you. I treasure a good guffaw. Fortunately, I had swallowed my sip of coffee; otherwise, I'd have done a major spew-take!
Posted by: TJ | Mar 2, 2012 11:47:13 AM
I appreciate his apology and welcome any help he may give. However He's still not someone I would be friends with. I understand people's anger and I think you have a right to feel that.
Rick its typical you would want people to sit home and do nothing to make things better, no one does that better then you.
Reminder: republicans (aka you) filibustered DADT repeal, had anti gay republicans not done that we could have done it with 51 votes (all dems) but O well it's done until a republican president puts it back in.
I do however agree that glitter bombs are Dumb and need to STOP. But hell Rick what do you do constructive besides sit home and let other do the work?
Posted by: GeorgeM | Mar 2, 2012 11:58:21 AM
I'm totally conflicted about this guy.
On the one hand, I strongly believe in forgiveness (Nelson Mandela's example has been instructive). And Ken's work behind the scenes was instrumental in passing marriage equalit in NY.
On the other hand, how can he CONTINUE supporting the Speaker of the House?? Astounding cognitive dissonance.
Posted by: Andrew | Mar 2, 2012 12:25:18 PM
The homophobia this guy whipped up drove people to the polls to vote republican, probably resulting in the election of George Bush. Think of all the conservative judges Bush appointed - the damage from that campaign will be felt for decades. This guy was, and will always be Gay Public Enemy. He was silent when it was to his benefit. Coming out after the fact was easy and weak.
Posted by: Will | Mar 2, 2012 12:36:08 PM
You can stick your "sorry" in whatever open space inside your body. The only real sorry would be your withdraw from any political activities.
Posted by: Luke | Mar 2, 2012 12:37:15 PM
I have a to-do list for Mr. Mehlman. Undo the same-sex marriage bans that passed as a result of the RNC's targeted campaigns in 2004 in the following 11 STATES:
Arkansas
Georgia
Kentucky
Michigan
Mississippi
Montana
North Dakota
Oklahoma
Ohio
Utah
I mean, New York was great and all, but it was *New York* which means that getting same-sex marriage passed – while wonderful and exhilarating – was not exactly pulling the sword from the stone. Let's see him lobby successfully to overturn the bans in Utah or Kentucky or Oklahoma and then we'll talk about redemption.
Posted by: RyanInSacto | Mar 2, 2012 12:42:37 PM
He is one of the most despicable person ever. You apology is way to late, way to shallow and you should shove it up your A**hole. Apology not accepted.
Posted by: Akira | Mar 2, 2012 12:44:36 PM
Oops... Left out Oregon in my list. Maybe he should start there. It might be easier which will be a good warm-up!
Posted by: RyanInSacto | Mar 2, 2012 12:45:38 PM
hey RICK, got proof of the work YOU'VE done for LGBT Equality?
as far as i can see, all you've done, RICK, is come on here every day, complain about "femmes", say something about Lady Gaga, then run back away into the Closet you're destined to die in when asked for any proof at all, via URL or your own youtube video, where you show us all the EXAMPLE YOU CLAIM TO LIVE BY.
ugh you're such a coward. no wonder your dad wished you'd just die and spare him the embarrassment of having to admit to fathering you.
anyway, Mehlman has done some good in the last few years. But he's still Boehner-suck up, which does indeed negate a lot of that work.
So he's still got a lot to learn about being a Big Boy with Real Man Balls
*le sigh*
but seriously, to the RICK's and his aliases and any other gay republican cowards who come on here complaining every day about liberals and "Stereotypical Gays"....
show us what bloody work you claim to be doing.
it's oh so easy. provide the URL. your own page. your own youtube video.
for once, may you little conservative white boys actually grown some balls and put your money where you mouth is.
don't just come on here and complain about all the Out gays who you resent for being braver than you, actually SHOW US what you're doing to make a difference in this country for LGBT Equality.
truly. Show it. It's so easy even a stereotypical homo like ME can do it.
Posted by: Little Kiwi | Mar 2, 2012 1:00:40 PM
Another back pedaling republican who says they are sorry AFTER the damage is done. Unfortunately he is one of us, boycott the mf, don't have anything to do with any business or organization he has anything to do with and if you ever have the opportunity to meet him in person, let him know how you feel about what he did.
Posted by: lk | Mar 2, 2012 1:24:00 PM
When he contributes EVERY SINGLE DOLLAR he made fighting AGAINST our rights, then I will accept his apology. Until then F*CK HIM.
Posted by: QJ201 | Mar 2, 2012 1:27:53 PM
No words for the man, just utter contempt.
Posted by: Craig | Mar 2, 2012 1:45:35 PM
My problem with the Gay Republicans, is that they would like their party to remove the scapegoat target status of gay people but they appear to be blind to the fact that their beloved party is addicted to scapegoating and discrimination, and will simply transfer their attacks to the GOP target of the moment. In 2008 and 2012 Hispanics bore the brunt of their demagoguery, though they seem to be gearing up for a full attack on women's access to contraception. It's not just this one thing - the homophobic thing - that is wrong with the GOP, it is the mindset of greed, and fear mongering and hatefulness that leads them there.
Posted by: Dan | Mar 2, 2012 3:43:09 PM
Can't we just send this ass to one of Michelle Bachmann's husband's re-assignment camps so that he can go "straight" and we can at least have an honesty enemy?
Posted by: noteasilyoffended | Mar 2, 2012 4:13:09 PM
His actions disgust me and his apology is far from enough.
Posted by: noteasilyoffended | Mar 2, 2012 4:18:53 PM
While it would be great if Mehlman was consistently on the right side of civil rights, I wouldn't count on it. Whatever "reparations" he thinks he's done, he has a long, long way to go.
We have much better political actors, gay, straight and otherwise, on a broader scale. Where Mehlman is important is in that small, but growing, niche of the political right that is aware that this is a losing issue for them message-wise and, therefore, politically.
That's not half bad.
Posted by: mini | Mar 2, 2012 4:41:12 PM
He also helped get W. elected, who then caused millions to loose their jobs, wasted billions on a fake war, and destroyed the national economy.
I know we can't put Mehlman on a no dating list because there'll always be skank rubes who'll drop to their knees in three seconds. But can't we at least cancel his membership card?
Posted by: Wilberforce | Mar 2, 2012 4:51:18 PM
Mehlman walks into the World of Gays and asks if we like his pretty red dress. "No", we reply, 'because we know what you had to do to get it that deep red color."
it goes far beyond just "gays" - this man contributed to a massive downward spiral for millions of Americans.
now, i DO believe that everyone is capable of redeeming themselves. but that takes years and years of direct action to undo what they helped create.
i truly hope, for his own sake, that he works damned hard for the rest of his life.
Posted by: Little Kiwi | Mar 2, 2012 5:04:38 PM