German Chancellor Angela Merkel Expresses Support for Anonymous Gay Footballer Afraid to Come Out
A gay German pro footballer, in an interview with the web publication Fluter, said that he's afraid to come out of the closet for fear of his safety, prompting a response from Chancellor Angela Merkel.
"The price I pay for living my dream as a Bundesliga player is high. I have to be an actor every day and go into self-denial. Unlike other celebrities, football players have to follow the footballer stereotype. They have to love sports, fight aggressively and be a role model at the same time. And gays don't follow that formula. I would not be safe any more if my sexuality was made public. I know of other Bundesliga players who are gay as well. We don't meet - it would just be too noticeable. It is a difficult parallel universe which continues inside the team. We don't talk about it much, nevertheless everyone knows about it. They sometimes ask me about my partner. I know all their stories from the papers, but they have to ask me to find out."
ESPN reports:
The player, who spoke to Fluter, said he, along with several other players in Germany's top division, is gay and explained: "I have to be an actor every day and go into self-denial."
His remarks led Merkel, speaking at a press conference in Berlin, to say: "You need not fear. I am of the opinion that everyone who has the strength and courage [to come out] should know that we live in a state where he essentially does not have to be fearful. That is my political statement."
The NYT adds:
He said he felt compelled to “put on an act and deny his true self” to square his public image with the expectations of fans, who are after a “stereotype of masculinity.” He also said the news media circus all but certain to ensue in the first few weeks after the first coming out of an active player was a major deterrent to going public.
Image: a German campaign fighting homophobia in sports featured two players kissing, and read: “Would you also beat up your favorite player for this?”




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Posted by: Yes I Am Annoymous So Are You Assholes | Sep 14, 2012 11:55:53 PM
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Posted by: Sean Collins | Sep 15, 2012 4:22:38 AM
@I COULD GO ON,BUT I WON'T,
Don't be phuking melodramatic. German's aren't more prone to being evil than any other human being, and the the Nazis were in power for less than 12 years in the early to mid part of the last century, 79 - 68 years ago. The communist and Maoist were and are in power in Russian, China and elsewhere for much longer and caused more suffering and death than the German Nazis, yet the people who constantly reference the Nazis rarely if ever reference the communist and Maoist. Why?
Germany is one of the most advanced and forward thinking countries on Earth and most Germans are decent and honorable people. Some people need to stop demonizing them as a to gain sympathy for their apparently eternal victim-hood.
Posted by: ratbastard | Sep 15, 2012 12:26:24 PM
it's very simple - wanna make an impact? come out. visibly. vocally. identifiably.
the fact that this story is about a guy who's afraid to put a face to who he is as a gay man and it's been derailed by a nutbag troll who insists that everyone else has to ...well, do what this anonymous troll refuses to do (put a face to The Gay) is beyond ironic.
"everyone get up, go out and do i what i pretend i'm doing!!"
uh, k.
Posted by: LittleKiwi | Sep 15, 2012 12:33:27 PM
@ Yadda: While Houston with some MILLION AND A HALF LESS people than Berlin doesn't qualify for my "city of comparable size," I should have mentioned its mayor as getting elected as an out lesbian in a city of any size in TexASS is a stunning accomplishment. But, in addition to my having clearly stated that Germany is "certainly not perfect," you're mixing Äpfel und Orangen when you talk of some states in the US being more "advanced in gay equality" than the country of Germany. Some German states are more gay positive than other German states, too. The larger fact remains that Germany wins in a side-by-side comparison of legal standing on a federal level with the US. Just ask the some 8000 gay service members shitcanned by the US government in the 12 years after Germany gave up such nonsense.
Posted by: Michael Bedwell | Sep 15, 2012 3:10:13 PM
Merkel has paid more than lip service to LGBT people. She has had a gay man, Guido Westerwelle, as Foreign Secretary and Vice Chancellor.
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