Happy Marriage Equality Day, New York!
It's a monumental day here in New York State, where hundreds of same-sex couples are planning to take advantage of our new marriage equality legislation and tie the knot.
In fact, some already have done the deed. As the New York Times reports, lesbian couple Cheryle Rudd and Kitty Lambert became the first gay married couple this morning, when they exchanged vows at Niagara Falls. And already 823 couples plan to marry in the Big Apple today, while countless more will do the same across the state, where city clerks and judges volunteered to come in on Sunday to help officiate over and process the new nuptials.
Regular men and women are also getting ordained so they can preside over their friends' weddings. "When gay marriage passed, I thought it would be great [to get ordained]," Brooklyn resident John DeLamar told the New York Daily News.
"When my friends asked me to marry them, I was really moved. We've been fighting for gay marriage together - we marched on Washington, we've been campaigning and pamphleting to get it approved. Marrying them is a great responsibility."
Meanwhile, divorce lawyers are salivating over the potential for new clients, predicting that, like straights, about half of gay marriages will end in divorce. "To divorce lawyers, gay marriage is the best thing since the Magna Carta,” said Manhattan-bsed lawyer Raoul Felder. “It basically doubles the population pool of potential clients."
Not everyone is celebrating the big day, though: the National Organization for Marriage will hold multiple protests, as will the always inflammatory Westboro Baptist Church, which insists, "For their defiance of their Lord, New Yorkers will suffer the wrath of God being poured out on them from the sky, just as others in history who have followed this path experienced.”
Well, we'll see about that.
Luckily, three LGBT groups are organizing their own protests to counter WBC's event, including their protest at Gracie Mansion, where Mayor Mike Bloomberg will preside over the wedding of two of his staffers.
And the excitment doesn't end today, as the Times points out:
On Monday night, three gay couples will wed onstage at the St. James Theater after the evening’s performance of the Broadway musical “Hair.” On Saturday, two dozen couples will marry in two pop-up chapels that are to be installed in Central Park. And the Fire Island Pines resort is promoting three same-sex wedding packages, one featuring a private ferry ride “complete with your own crew of drag queens.”
Anyway you slice it, though, it's a big, big day here in New York and even if you're not here to celebrate, we can all agree, I hope, that we're living through history.




Maybe that wrath of God pouring out of the sky will be in the form of a heat wave that won't end coming down over evil, evil people.
Oh, wait...
Posted by: Jim | Jul 24, 2011 8:59:04 AM
the wrath of god these people better look around. so far this year the bible belt has had tornados floods drought hurricanes wild fires and blizzards and over a month of above normal heat. who does look like god wrath is upon. must be those hypocritical bible beaters. god must be showing they the way to stop preaching hate.
Posted by: walter | Jul 24, 2011 10:08:36 AM
Why do lesbian couples imitate hetero-normative wedding fashion? ie. 'Bride' and 'Groom' dress code. Can't it just be two brides?
Posted by: philip | Jul 24, 2011 10:55:13 AM
CONGRATS and BEST WISHES to ALL of the HAPPY COUPLES!!! :)
Posted by: WayneMPLS | Jul 24, 2011 10:57:00 AM
Beautiful, New York! Loving it.
Posted by: Max | Jul 24, 2011 11:03:35 AM
May I suggest, and, to a degree it is self-promotion, but really not meant to be...if you have a friend who is getting married today, and they have a Facebook or Twitter account...how about linking or posting a link to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i4DyAqnJoPo (Same as if you click on my nomen)...
It's a fun 'happy thought' with no motive, just wishing them a happy gay legal marriage. The last few seconds say it all!!
CONGRATS TO ALL THE HAPPY COUPLES!!
Posted by: CB | Jul 24, 2011 12:09:23 PM
"To divorce lawyers, gay marriage is the best thing since the Magna Carta,” said Manhattan-bsed lawyer Raoul Felder. “It basically doubles the population pool of potential clients."
Wow....I thought *I* was cynical!
Posted by: Henry Holland | Jul 24, 2011 1:18:31 PM
@Philip, I had initially thought the same thing and then I realized, It's their wedding day and they (like couples everywhere) get to wear whatever makes them happy. Let's just enjoy the moment and celebrate their wedding.
Posted by: Howard | Jul 24, 2011 2:04:15 PM
We in Canada have had same sex marriage nationally for 6 years now and the first same sex marriage took place in Toronto in 2001. Last time I checked the sky hasn't opened. Wrath of God zero and same sex marriage for the win.
Posted by: Chris | Jul 24, 2011 2:50:24 PM
Sometimes ladies like to dress like guys, and vice versa. Wedding should be whatever the couple feels comfortable in. Two grooms, two brides, a groom and bride -- whatever!
There will probably be new innovations in wedding apparel with this announcement, blurring the two different modes of dress.
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