Towleroad Interview: Ross Mathews Dishes On Red Carpets and Dream Guests

TR: What have you found particularly challenging about working on the show?

RM: It's a shift from going from like a freelancer who travels, and there were times I would have four days off … To have a normal job with weekends off, I don't understand how people get haircuts. When am I supposed to do that? It's all new to me. I'm eight weeks now into having a normal, real-person job. Then what happens is I work on the weekends, I do the red carpets or I travel and do a college speaking engagement or something like that. I can't figure out when I'm supposed to get some stuff done. I'm sure it will work out.


TR: Who are some of your dream guests for the show, living or dead?

Well, tonight we have Gloria Estefan, next week we have Kris Jenner and then the week after that, we have Gwyneth Paltrow. So dream guests, we're getting them, we're achieving it. I'd love to have Lady Gaga on, because I'd love to provide that to her fans. Her fans are really loyal, and to give that kind of access to her fans would be great. Plus, I don't know who she is, so I'd like to try and crack that nut. I'd love to have Oprah in. Dead or alive? I'd love to have had Marilyn Monroe in, just because I think she is the most iconic Hollywood figure I can think of. 

What would you have liked to ask her?

I would ask her if all the fame scared her. I'd ask her who she really is and if anyone really knows her.

You're a pretty busy guy, what else are you working on?

I have the book, Man Up!, which is a best seller, I'm still out selling that book and talking about that book. We have the show, Hello Ross, every Friday at 10 p.m./9 p.m. Central after Fashion Police. I'm doing Chelsea Lately, and then getting to work to really spread the message about knowing your status with OraQuick. There is so much going on right now, but I'm loving every second of it.

What's the hardest thing about working the red carpet?

There is nowhere to go potty. For the last hour I usually have to go so bad, like number one, so bad. 

What's your favorite part about the red carpets?

The best part is just being there. I spent so many years in a small farm town watching, wishing, dreaming, hoping I could see it one day for myself. Now I've been covering them for 12 years, and it never gets old, just being there. For me, it's like living history.

What's been your favorite red carpet memory?

My favorite red carpet memory would be asking Gwyneth to be my best friend, and then she said yes and now we are.

What are your current pop-culture obsessions?

I am upset with Dexter, because the finale was so horrible. I am so obsessed and in deep with Breaking Bad, I can't even tell you. I watched it on my iPad and caught up, and now I'm like in it. I'm still obsessed all the time with HGTV and House Hunters, and I watch a lot of Food Network — even though that makes me sound like a senior citizen, but I don't care. Of course, I'm obsessed with Miley Cyrus and her trajectory right now. I'm really in deep with Housewives. I'm invested in Lindsay Lohan's sobriety. I should probably get a life.


  1. says

    “There is nowhere to go potty. For the last hour I usually have to go so bad, like number one, so bad.”

    Wow! Just… wow!

  2. Mike Ryan says

    There is NO excuse for ANY queen to be interviewing Gloria Estafan. Miss (actually Mrs.) Estafan is a staunch right-wing Republican. OTOH, Ross Mathews is one of the biggest most embarrassing stereotypical openly gay pompous blowhards the gay community is forced to endure. Both disgust me.

  3. Jeremy says

    That “biggest embarrassing sterotypical openly gay pompous blowhard” is living his dream and his life authentically. And doing a damn fine job at it, too.

    Jealous much?

  4. Thomas says

    There are so many people who try very hard to be someone that they are not, so when a person as authentic as Ross comes along it’s very refreshing.

  5. zeddy says

    So happy he has a show and is comfortable with his hilarious self to now have to try to be someone else. Poor self hating gays.

  6. steve talbert says

    Marilyn Monroe is only iconic because she died early and people could project onto her. If she had lived, she would be like Bridget Bardo now.

  7. Mike Ryan says

    Yes, you smartas, I am jealous! Do you know how sick to death I am every day of seeing queens like Ross Mathews out mincing around through life while I work so hard to pretend that I’m straight and nobody loves or respects me for it? Gay stereotypes are the reason I can’t get laid and the reason I hate my life!

  8. Brian says

    While I like Ross and am often amused by his bad puns and silly rants, I think he’s just more proof of Andy Warhol’s prediction.

  9. Andy Warhol says

    “In the future, only Brian won’t be famous for fifteen-minutes. Because he’s a toolbag.”