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  1. Matt says

    “”You’re told you shouldn’t be a snitch or tattler,” said Thiesen.”

    The police should question them and find bullies.

  2. Troy says

    I blame parents of bullies. My partner and I are gay and have an 11 year old son. He was invited to a sleepover at the home of a friend from school along with another of his classmates. They had a great time. We sent church clothes in our son’s bag because his friend is Catholic and we knew they would go to church the next morning. I asked him if his other friend went, too. My son’s response? “No, David said his mom wouldn’t let him go because the clothes he would have to wear would make him look gay.” (rolls eyes) Fortunately my son realizes how ridiculous that statement was. He even defended his friend, David, “Dad, David doesn’t believe that. Just his parents.” When will the madness stop?

  3. patrick nyc says

    These kids are not born that way, they learn it from their parents, churches, and peers. It is re-enforced by bigots like Glen Beck and right wing nuts.

  4. jason says

    The parents of the bullies are primarily the culprits here. Mothers and fathers bring up their sons in a a homophobic fashion. Boys are told by their moms and dads that they mustn’t kiss or hug other boys. This instills in them a fear and anxiety.

    Contrast this with how girls up brought up by their parents. Girls are told to admire other girls for their beauty. Look at how pretty Barbie dolls are given to little girls by their parents. Can you imagine parents encouraging their sons to admire beauty in a man?

    Parents are to blame.

  5. Tyler says

    I’m not convinced this is something new (as implied by the word epidemic here). I just think with the age of the internet, we all hear about it. I am sure this has been happening for decades now. In the age of the internet, these kids finally have a voice though, even if too late to save their own lives. Think of how many have died that we never heard about. Ugh. I just want to tell them all that if they can hang on a little longer, things will get better.

    I think the teachers who all admit in these cases to knowing about this bullying are who are to really blame. If you can’t trust that your kids’ teachers are going to stand up for your kid when you aren’t there to do it, who can you trust? I’m thankful I had an older brother who, when hearing I was being picked on, took care of the kids who were doing it for me. It’s sad these kids didn’t have anyone standing up for them.

  6. says

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  7. Jubal Harshaw says

    Seth’s parents, friends, the school and YOU are to blame. They’re spineless cowards who are unwilling to stand up and say enough is enough.

    “”You’re told you shouldn’t be a snitch or tattler,” said Thiesen. ”

    and

    “We should all heed the Walsh family’s statement on the subject: “A negative action … by adults and children … will not solve or help anyone! Violence is not the answer! Please everyone, be kind and love one another!””

    These two statements say volumes about the cowardice and lack of morals in this country.

    In Canada, bullied students get this kind of action at least:

    http://www.towleroad.com/2007/09/students-stand-.html

    What the hell do they get in the states?

    HOW. FUCKING. MANY. MORE?

  8. says

    If any of you out there are racers or marathoners, you can contact GLSEN and they will be your race partners to help you fundraise to help stop this problem. They will create a donation page for you so your friends can donate online. I’ve been racing for the last two years ever since hearing about Carl Walker Hoover and have been able to raise thousands of dollars. GLSEN has been awesome in supporting me. You can go to my donation page for an example https://my.glsen.org/leschke.

  9. says

    It’s pathetic that police are looking at this and saying “Kids will be kids” essentially. When police say that it’s “Too hard” to find out what really happened, they mean they are too inept.

  10. mad1026 says

    And Westboro Baptist Church gets to go to SCOTUS to ask for the right to BULLY legally? WTF is wrong with this picture? Our children are the future and these assholes are taking them away at an alarming rate. As a child, I was bullied (it was the 1950’s) and I thought it would never end, just as Seth and Asher must have felt. We all need to work to put a stop to bullying by peers, religious zealots and even the police.

  11. Royy says

    The only thing that made me cry was that horrible soundtrack. Sounded like the shitty intro music to a 80s sitcom.

  12. Rowan says

    You’re so right Royy. You know you’re too kewl for skool yo? Did you write that sitting at the back of the office with your bros singling like 6 year old girls at the pretty girls slumber party?

  13. anon says

    Again, the root causes of severe depression in teenagers is clinical and not caused by bullying. It may be aggravated by bullying, but not caused by it. This is primarily a medical issue. What one tends to disregard is that suicidal teens will act on their impulses regardless of the input. For example, they might not win a science project and then off themselves. How many Asian kids commit suicide because they fail to maintain a perfect 4.0 GPA? More than a few. Parents need to clue themselves in to see the signs of depression. Treatments are few, but they can help. And intervention is very good at preventing violence or suicide (it goes both ways).

  14. customartist says

    Would Jesus Bully Gay People? Would Jesus lie to Cover it up? Would Jesus fail to investigate and charge the bullies with crimes??

    CNN has reported on this issue. Email to thank them, and to ask for more coverage.

    Anderson Cooper
    http://www.cnn.com/feedback/forms/form4.html?5

    Kyra Phyllips
    http://www.cnn.com/feedback/forms/form4.html?16

    My message:
    Thank you for reporting on the very important issue of Child Death by School Bullying.

    The denial and the apathy displayed by these school systems and their respective communities over the Deaths of Children is appalling and immoral.

  15. ratbastard says

    The exact cause(s) of depression are varied and complex. I’m not an expert, but my understanding is clinical depression is believed to be caused by a combination of factors including environment. It’s certainly possible then that this boy became clinically depressed due at least partially to external abuse and (internalized hate?) and was pushed over the edge by at least partially his environment. In fact it could have been the defining factor, couldn’t it?

  16. TANK says

    Oh shut up, rb. Your desperate attempts at muddying the waters here when so many cases of suicide amongst bullied gay or perceived gay teens abound is ridiculous. What these cases have in common is that these kids were mercilessly harassed by their peers because of their actual or perceived homosexuality. Due to underdetermination, you can say just about anything…in fact, there are people who claim that the world is only six thousand years old…and they have no difficulty reinterpreting all of the empirical data which suggests otherwise into their pathetic, ad hoc unverifiable scheme…

    Yo, when the law fails, it’s time to sack up and pay the debt that has been incurred.

  17. customartist says

    Absent proper Police Investigation on the local level, Where are the Feds on this Hate Crime?

    Does the bully have to be The Very One who pushes the knife in? I think not!

  18. Hank says

    Unfortunately this is nothing new, homophobia has long existed in schools and still does. In addition to the homophobes stopping their homophobia, and teaching it to their kids (and also the teachers and administrators tolerating and even supporting it)…I believe we gays can help too. By putting out a more positive image of ourselves – because many of these homophobes have sleazy half-naked leathermen from gay pride floats or over the top drag queens in their heads when they think of gay. Maybe we need to rethink our gay pride parades and what we put out there…because those extremes are the ones that get on TV and everyone else sees. Sorry not to piss anyone off but stereotypes of our minority, or most, don’t come from a vacuum or from nowhere, they come from somewhere. As a minority, we don’t have the luxury of expecting the majority to see us fairly unless we more strongly show them, because many of them won’t. Sorry if you disagree but we need to do better on our end too so they’ll stop hating and fearing us. It’s not the ’70s anymore, our movement needs to evolve more. (Sadly, I’m also not surprised we still haven’t achieved an end to DADT or an end to Prop 8, or marriage rights in most states or sexual-orientation nondiscrimination in most states. It’s not just them, we’re doing something wrong.)

  19. Grace56 says

    One of the thing I want to know is how a 13 kid is “out” as a homosexual.

    I’m going say something that will get me slammed but this is the result of all the homosexual propaganda we get in the schools and TV

    At that age he shouldn’t be identify with a group of people who are dysfunctional.

    In the 60’s I didn’t even know what a homosexual was until I was 16.

    This is a *direct* result of the over sexualizion of children who are not able to handle it!

    This young man paid the ultimate price as a result of social engineering.

    (BTW this is not to soften the schools responsibility they let it happen, but schools have always turned a blind eye to bullying)

  20. says

    With the new media and internet, gay kids are coming out much sooner. I’ve done a lot of research over the years on bullied, and gay bullied kids, because I wrote a novel with a ‘gay’ bullied teen as narrator, and I’ve seen too many stories about kids like Seth being bullied, and ultimately ending their lives. It’s a tragedy, which I believe can be prevented by paying attention. Parents and educators should always be on the lookout for kids in emotional trouble, and reach out when they feel it’s needed. I don’t know enough about the story of Seth, but weren’t there any teachers who were aware he was being bullied to the point where he saw no alternative but to take his own life? And what about his parents, the front line, didn’t they see anything happening?
    As a parent, I watch my kids closely. Not that I take any freedom away from them, but I think I would know if something serious would be up, and I would respond immediately.
    I’m sorry another kid had to take his own life because of actions of others, and yes, the bullies should be held accountable.

  21. Bob Sharp says

    I think part of the problem is that young Seth was very theatrical and clearly “fruiting things up” at times. (See the picture of him above with the tiara.) That doesn’t mean he should have been bullied to death but he wanted to make a big issue out of being gay and then couldn’t handle it when other people took him up on it.

  22. haley daniel says

    hey guys what you did to seth wasnt cool now me and my friends are starting to see him all he waits to do is see his mother and get reveng to the kids that bullied him and if you dont beleave me call me or my griend kallijo at (360)-755-8757 or (360 795-8757….you have to help us find out what it is he waints us to do….
    if seths mom is reading this please this isnt a jioke i;m scared

  23. Ken says

    If there was nobody who was gay, then there wouldn’t be anti-gay bullying. All jokes aside I think that it’s the gay rights activists who tells people it’s okay to be gay, but then the children get bullied for being gay. I mean, seriously…if you think about it, they get pushed into being comfortable with their homosexuality, when in reality the majority really aren’t and they despise themselves for it. Then they get bullied for being encouraged to express themselves. Violence is in our nature, homosexuality isn’t, and that’s where the majority of the people are confused. If homosexuality was in our nature, then we’d be naturally tolerant to it. Instead, we’re naturally violent to it, and that’s where the problem lies. Homosexuals are people just as much as I and my family are. And we very much welcome the company of people, but we do not welcome the company of such behavior (I like people, even though their behavior isn’t that great. I’d still put food in front of a homeless man so he can eat, even though his behavior may or may not be to drink alcohol instead of investing the money he collects). Putting that into a child’s perspective, their views on people and behavior aren’t that clear as the frontal lobe hasn’t fully developed, so they just automatically associate people with behavior. That then explains how they treat them as less than human, because to them it’s less than nature for that behavior to exist. Bullying is bad but it’s always existed, no speech or law can change that, kids are real crafty and they’ll find a way around it in given time. If we want a solution to the problem, then it’s best to start with finding the real problem, rather than trying to force people to be tolerant, it just pisses people off because nobody likes to be forced (unless they’re into that stuff). I mean, talk about putting a band-aid on a gunshot wound.

  24. says

    “Asher Brown was just 13 when he killed himself last month. So was Seth Walsh. Both were allegedly targets of anti-gay bullying.

    According to gay activists, so were recent suicide victims Justin Aaberg, 15, Tyler Clementi, 18, and Billy Lucas, 15.

    Now schools are trying to combat the apparent teen suicide surge among young men dealing with anti-gay abuse, but the politics of sexual identity threaten to get in the way.

    Gay-rights supporters insist that anti-bullying programs must address harassment of gay youth. Religious conservatives call that an opportunistic manipulation to sway young people’s views of homosexuality.

    The invective is “”some of the worst I’ve ever seen,”” said Dennis Carlson, superintendent of Minnesota’s Anoka-Hennepin School District, where Justin Aaberg killed himself in July. “”We may invite the Department of Justice to come in and help us mediate this discussion between people who seem to want to go at each other.”””