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NFL Commish Roger Goodell Protected Gay Brother From Bullies

If there was one thing future NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell did not tolerate while growing up, it was when bullies picked on his then-closeted brother, Michael.

In a lengthy profile published in the latest TIME magazine, Goodell and Michael discuss those days, and the lengths Goodell went to keep his polar opposite sibling safe, and how it saved Michael's life:

When Michael Goodell, who came out after college, hears about gay kids committing suicide because of bullying, he reflects on how he could have been one of them. “I was the type who would have been beat up a lot,” says Michael.

"It would have been humiliating. What would that have meant if I did survive it. Would I have done drugs? There are all sorts of things you can turn to because of self-hatred and loathing. But none of that was even a possibility, because I had this support around me. So, yeah, Roger is very much a hero figure for me.”

During an with an interview with the commissioner, I read Michael’s words to him. Roger Goodell teared up. "Ha," he says, sniffling, not able to say much else. "That’s the first time I heard that. I didn’t know it had much impact on him."

Goodell has been pretty quiet about his own politics, but when right-wingers went after Baltimore Raven Brendon Ayanbadejo for backing marriage equality in Maryland, Goodell defended the player. "I think in this day and age, people are going to speak up about what they think is important. They speak as individuals and that’s an important part of democracy," he said. 

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  1. That's a heartwarming story. Goes to show that for many, including those you never expect, family will always come first, and sexuality will never divide that.

    Now let's see Roger stand up for gay/bisexual NFL players and start taking homophobia within the sport seriously, because he's failed on that regard.

    Posted by: Francis | Dec 6, 2012 3:51:43 PM

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    Posted by: cateblanchettc | Dec 6, 2012 3:59:08 PM

  3. I can relate to this. The only reason I was never picked on in school was because my brother was strong and popular and always had my back. I'm sure he doesn't have a clue how much his sticking up for me helped!

    Posted by: Luke | Dec 6, 2012 5:08:57 PM

  4. Well, Luke, maybe you should tell him.

    Posted by: Yeek | Dec 6, 2012 9:20:44 PM

  5. Good for both Goodell's. So, previous commish Paul Tagliabue has a gay son and current commish Roger Goodell has a gay brother, nice! Now if they could only get a current player to come out.....

    Posted by: Henry Holland | Dec 6, 2012 10:26:10 PM

  6. If he has a personal stake in equality, then he should not allow NOM to use the property of NFL Films in its propaganda?

    Or punish NFL players who call fans “faggot” on twitter?

    Posted by: Carlie | Dec 7, 2012 10:22:46 AM

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