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  1. jonnathewoodswoman says

    Yes, Petey, we’re all aware of the “Real men” thing. But no one accused you of being a real man, we’ve always assumed you were a power bottom.

  2. says

    Masculine men don’t spend their lives thinking about, and complaining about, any of this.

    Masculine men don’t even think about being masculine. Only insecure men think about that, and I was never one to liken masculinity to insecurity and cowardice.

    Further – the opposite of masculinity isn’t even femininity. masculine means man. the opposite would be a boy. boys lie, evade and give stupid excuses. men do the right thing.

    this man is so sad. he’ll lose at least one of his own kids, likely to suicide. and once again, we see their misogyny and parallel transphobia manifesting in anti-gay animus.

    insecure “straight” men with emasculation issues.
    *barf*

  3. Mike_in_Houston says

    Oh, Petey, Petey. I hate to be the one to tell you this, but being a masculine man is something you will never be accused of. Evah.

  4. Derrick from Philly says

    Oh, Lord. Labarbera want’s to go on the false macho “down low” just to get his booty banged. Just be Gay–it’s much easier on the mind.

    Or go to jail. Then you can have super macho man to man sex.

  5. Martin says

    The most obvious closet case that ever lived!

    As a gay man, I think about gay sex often, but NOWHERE NEAR as much as Pete thinks about it; Jesus, the man NEVER thinks of anything else.

  6. Z says

    I don’t think anyone is interested in LaBarbera’s stipulative definition of masculinity.

    Those guys he is referring to are more tough and masculine than he could ever dream of being.

    LaBarbera would never have the courage to go to one of these gatherings. And no dom would touch him, unless it’s to beat the s*** out of him. Unfortunately if that were to happen, it wouldn’t be so much a punishment for LaBarbera, but something to masturbate to later when he got home.

    @JONNATHEWOODSWOMAN You do realize you just insinuated that bottoms and power bottoms are not real men, right? You’re not going to insult LaBarbera by reinforcing his paradigm… FYI – bottoms and power bottoms can be ‘masculine’ too.

  7. Sean says

    That illiterate, mentally diseased, Heinrich Himmler wannabe, blood thirsty, Nazi savage would know because he is NOT masculine at all (a ken doll is more of a masculine man than he will ever be) and he is a closeted co

  8. Ernie says

    Porno Pete and Little Kiwi are like peas in a pod. Little Kiwi hates when gay men describe themselves as masculine and so does Peter LaBarbera.

  9. billy wingartenson says

    Lets have a fight – lababerra vs Michael Sam – if LaB loses Michael sam gets to make him happy

    All these nut case closet cases need is my speicalty for religious haters

    a cross made out of two dildoes jammed up their pooper, massaging their prostate gland

  10. Erik says

    On one hand I understand needing to know what these people are putting out there but on the other do we need to keep posting comments made about these yahoos? Don’t we give news stations grief about inviting these sort of guests on their shows yet we keep lending some sort of validation by reporting their crazy comments? I feel as though we could just have a generic blog post saying “Nut job says crazy thing about homosexuality” and leave it at that. I would like to see more posts about positive things the gay community has done or ways in which we can get involved in the community in place of articles about these people. Just my 2 cents.

  11. Erik says

    On one hand I understand needing to know what these people are putting out there but on the other do we need to keep posting comments made about these yahoos? Don’t we give news stations grief about inviting these sort of guests on their shows yet we keep lending some sort of validation by reporting their crazy comments? I feel as though we could just have a generic blog post saying “Nut job says crazy thing about homosexuality” and leave it at that. I would like to see more posts about positive things the gay community has done or ways in which we can get involved in the community in place of articles about these people. Just my 2 cents.

  12. Ricco says

    To be sure the ‘leather attire’ worn by those in the leather community is an affectation, much like cross dressing for straight men, drag for gay men, or the donning of medieval-like garments for those interested in medieval faires, or people who LARP, wear super-hero outfits, or pretending to be wizards, ogres, etc.

    But here is the thing about most of the guys who participate in these International Mr. Leather competitions . . . the thing about many men who have sex with other men,including most drag queens I have known, and certainly many of our gay soldiers, most of them could kick Peter Labarbera’s a** if he were stupid enough to talk his shi* to their faces . . . but he’s not man enough to do that.

    Of course whether or not one man can kick the crap out of another man is no true measure of his manhood, certainly not who he has sex with . . . and while an effiminate man could be the very definition of one who is not masculine, his mannerisims would not be the measure of him as a man . . . that is his “manhood.”

    I have an ex-partner who, if not the most effeminate man I ever met, was certainly the most effeminate man i ever shared my life and my bed with . . . because of all the men I have met in my life, gay or straight, including the macho soldiers I served with in the army, he was not easily offended or provoked, either to anger, or tears, and did not have a penchant for complaining.

    Beleive me . . .life dealt my ex a tough hand. He suffered greatly, both emotionally and physically, and never bemoaned his station in life . . . was not prone to judge others, capable of great empathy without being maudlin . . . comporting himself with moral strength, neither fussing over, or one to be fussed over. Unless wielding an iron skillet, and could get the drop on a fella, was not going to be kicking anyone’s a**, but he totally put the screws to life!

    The face that Peter Labarbera shows the world, he is a weak man who is the antithesis of everything I just described about my ex-partner.

    His entire manhood is an affectation, and his personhood highly questionable, a pathetic man more to be pitied than scorned.

  13. Erik says

    On one hand I understand needing to know what these people are putting out there but on the other do we need to keep posting comments made about these yahoos? Don’t we give news stations grief about inviting these sort of guests on their shows yet we keep lending some sort of validation by reporting their crazy comments? I feel as though we could just have a generic blog post saying “Nut job says crazy thing about homosexuality” and leave it at that. I would like to see more posts about positive things the gay community has done or ways in which we can get involved in the community in place of articles about these people. Just my 2 cents.

  14. Derrick from Philly says

    @ RICCO,

    thanks. That was a great testimony about your ex-partner. You showed respect for him. I read those two paragraphs about your ex-partner (in your comment) a few times. I like him myself.

  15. Hey Darlin' says

    Men who are uncomfortable with their own masculinity place limitations and guidelines on the masculinity of others.

    Truly masculine men don’t have a need for comparison.

  16. The Milkman says

    You know, when I have occasional questions about masculinity, I know that all my friends and I turn to only one informational source… Peter LaBarbera. Between his deeply unattractive physical appearance, his breathtaking bigotry, and what can only be a microscopic penis, we just couldn’t imagine a more stable source for masculinity information than Li’l Pete.

  17. greenfuzz says

    A lot of thinking about IML? Funny I don’t think about it unless I see a story about it. Glad we have ole Petey to give us the latest headlines .

  18. woodroad34 says

    He paints himself rather nicely. Has he looked in a mirror? That’s not a masculine man staring back at him. If ever “sissy” applied to someone, it’s him. He’s a cringing, superstitious, small minded individual who hides…simply hides…behind a primitive society’s beliefs. So much for being manly and taking responsibility for himself.

  19. Bernie says

    it appears Mr. Labarbera is always hyper focused on gay male sex and since he said masculine men don’t have sex with other men is telling on him….does he doubt his masculinity?!!??

  20. john patrick says

    Well these two guys are just so macho, they make me shake in my boots. They are obviously experts on masculine guys and who they have sex with.

    Actually, in my experience, straight men who are secure in their sexuality are not obsessed with homosexuality and what men do in bed with each other. These two guys are saying a lot more about their own masculinity than they are about the masculinity of the men at the International Mr. Leather competition.

  21. Patrick says

    That was you,Tony Perkins,Gary Bauer and all of the other right wing haters at the bath houses on your knees being the big ole gang bang bottoms ALL of you unbalanced people really are. All of you all are big ole power bottom closet cases!!!

  22. Cassandra says

    So someone hot refused to have sex with him, again.

    That’s what is is always about, isn’t it? Someone Porno Pete wants desperately doesn’t want Porno Pete at all – so he goes on the rants.

  23. arch says

    He’s more obsessed with gay sex than most gays (apart from the teenage ones; all teenagers gay or straight only think about sex most of the time).

  24. Bill says

    Jesus, this repressed big old homo needs to shut the f*ck up and turn the page. He is OBSESSED with males and their dicks. Honey, where there’s smoke there’s fire – this boy needs a hand job BAD!!

  25. Bill says

    (Not the same person posting as “Bill” above)

    What’s funny about these two obviously out of shape guys talking about “masculinity” is that I know people in the upper 60s who are in far better shape than they are.

    A video showing how these homophobic guys do in comparison during a trip to a gym would be hilarious.

  26. anon says

    This is the sort of echo chamber discussion you get when like minded people sit around the table and go “ah-yup” to everything that’s being said but knowing they don’t have anyone else who’ll agree w/ them.

    Any church group that hires Porno Pete better ought to gain a healthy dose of skepticism over their messenger of gay debauchery. Or, at least their ill-informed congregations ought to.

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