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04/19/2007


MUSIC SPECIAL: Interview with Thursday's Geoff Rickly

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NORMAN BRANNON

Guestblogger Norman Brannon is a pop critic, musician, and author based in New York City. He presents a weekly music update here on Towleroad and writes regularly at Nervous Acid.  

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Thursday__18642_zoom Thursday No Devolución (Epitaph)
Glasvegas Euphoric / Heartbreak (Columbia)

A little less than a month ago, the Chicago band Rise Against released their sixth studio album, Endgame, to critical and commercial acclaim — making its debut at number two on the Billboard charts and scoring the band their first proper Hot 100 single. But what's gone under the radar so far is the inclusion of a song called "Make It Stop (September's Children)," which — perhaps in an unlikely turn for a hard rock band — explicitly criticizes Church-sanctioned homophobia and goes on to list the names of those LGBT teens who took their own lives last September before proclaiming, "Make it stop, let this end / This life chose me, I'm not lost in sin / And proud I stand of who I am / I plan to go on living." Although singer Tim McIlrath is straight, his lyrics take an unambiguous stand in solidarity with the LGBT community. 

Similarly, this week, Scotland's Glasvegas returns with their sophomore album, Euphoric / Heartbreak — a widescreen British rock album that the band is hinging their early success on — but, this time, singer James Allen uses his platform to denounce homophobia on a pair of awkwardly titled songs called "Stronger Than Dirt (Homosexuality Pt. 2)" and "I Feel Wrong (Homosexuality Pt. 1)." Earlier this week, he told Spinner, "Even in this modern day you'd think that people would have more important things to think about than someone's sexuality. It's a shame that this goes on in the world." On "I Feel Wrong," he rues, "God, it's only love."

Glasvegas-Euphoric-Heartbreak What Rise Against and Glasvegas are doing is, on some level, unprecedented: Both of these bands are at stages of their career where they've already sold hundreds of thousands — if not millions — of records around the world; both of these bands have access to radio, international press, and major label distribution. But more relevantly, both of these bands belong to a genre riddled with hypermasculinity and subcultural heterosexism. Considering this, their willingness to pave the way for a queer-inclusive hard rock archetype is arguably more radical than "Born This Way," and for many young kids, more meaningful than "It Gets Better" — because while it's nice to know that things won't always be so hard, it's even better to know that there are people you look up to who are actually doing the work to make it better now

The New Jersey–based Thursday, whose latest full-length album No Devolución also comes out today, are pioneers in this regard: In 2001, they released "Paris In Flames" — a song that tried to convey the isolation of one of singer Geoff Rickly's gay friends and a nod to the movie Paris Is Burning — and then again, in 2003, the band recorded an eponymous tribute to Matthew Shepard for their major label debut. In an attempt to further explore this emerging intersection between hard rock music and gay politics, I spoke with Rickly — a musician whose thoughtful nature and political empathy turns out to be both compelling and authentic.

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Geoff NB: Back in the days when you released "Paris in Flames" or "M. Shepard," you could probably count the number of hard rock bands openly talking about homophobia or gay sexuality on two fingers. But just in the last few months, first with Rise Against and now with Glasvegas, we've seen at least two major rock bands come out and explicitly tackle the issue. What do you think has changed between then and now?

GR: That's an interesting question. I mean, first, I think more people are thinking about this as a civil rights issue — which is what I think it's always been, but I'm not sure it was always couched in those terms in the general public view. And then with the marriage issue, I think it's become much more of a wider discussion, where everyone is involved with it all the time. I've always felt that I needed to talk from the perspective that I have, which is that of a straight white male; I never thought I could inhabit anyone else's thoughts or ideas. But I have all these friends that I see having a hard time with this — because of pressures that the general public or the government or institutions like the Church are putting on them and that's the kind of stuff that drives me crazy. It's not so much that I want to talk about what it's like to be gay; I don't have any idea what it's like to be gay. But I do think it's sort of the obvious human issue of our time. The fact that there's a group that people still feel comfortable making laws for, and telling them what they can't do, and telling them what they're allowed to have. That's just insane. I mean, if we pushed it back fifty years and talked about, "Oh, I don't know about interracial marriage!" (laughs) … You'd be a maniac.

NB: Actually, just this week actually there was a poll of Mississippi Republicans that was released, and I'm not lying…

GR: (Laughs) This sounds like a set up right here.

NB: No, not at all. A reputable polling firm asked a group of Mississippi Republicans: "Do you think that interracial marriage should be legal or illegal?" And the split came out that 40% said it should be legal, 46% said it should be illegal, and 14% were not sure! That's actually real.

GR: That can't be! Wow. So I'm guessing my wife and I aren't going to be too happy there as an interracial couple (laughs). That is so scary.

NB: So OK. I was thinking about how hip-hop generally bears the brunt of the homophobia accusations…

GR: It does.

Thursday_Press Shot SMALLER NB: But at the same time, there are a lot of people who think that gay people are not fans of or involved with hard rock because of homophobia there.

GR: Right. Well, even today, with all the songs that we've released and with all that we've said, people are still totally comfortable coming onto our bus and throwing around the word "faggot" as a pejorative. I find that shocking all the time. People are just saying, "Oh, those dudes are faggots. That band sucks" — as if it's the same thing. As if being gay represents being weak or all of the things a truly ignorant person who has never met a gay person would think.

NB: Do you think that rock artists just assume that gay rights is someone else's fight, whereas pop artists are maybe more sensitive to the diversity of their fans?

GR: I'm gonna say something really cynical, but honestly, in both of those categories there's going to be a little bit of pandering going on to your supposed demographic. I think that in hard rock — like popular hard rock, like Nickelback or something — there's going to be this idea that I have to look like this hard rock tough-guy, and I think in pop, there's a little more sensitivity to like, "Well, a lot of my crowd might be gay and they can be tastemakers for who listens to me." So there's a little bit of that going on. I don't wanna say that that's it, I don't wanna single out any one artist and say they don't care or that they're just playing to a crowd, but…

NB: … But capitalism still drives politics sometimes.

GR: It definitely does. And I think that even some of these people who feel strongly about gay rights are deciding whether or not it's an issue they wanna come out for or not, thinking about how it will affect their career. Pop artists are probably thinking it won't affect them negatively, while rock artists might think it's not a good look to stick up for this.

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NB: How much of that is that rock artists are less inclined to discuss gay issues because they're afraid of being perceived as gay?

GR: The crazy thing about that is that [in 2003] around War All The Time, when we were a really high-visibility band, that was the one thing I would read about myself all the time. "Their singer is totally gay." Just because I said something, like automatically, I must be gay — because, like, why would you care about somebody else's life or issues? At the same time, I'd just gotten married to a woman, but I didn't really feel like correcting anybody because, whatever. Maybe if they think that I'm gay they'll be thinking about it. Maybe they'll think, "Hmm, I don't know. He seems all right" — or whatever crazy thing that people who actually care about that are thinking.

NB: I actually noticed that. I was thinking about how you've never really gone out of your way to assert your heterosexuality, and how if you do a search on Google for "Geoff Rickly gay," you just get tons of people agonizing over it. They just don't know!

GR: (Laughs) Well, I would never try to pretend that I was gay. But it's funny that people would go crazy trying to figure it out.

Geoff live NB: When I was thinking about this interview, it also occurred to me that one of the kids in the recent spate of gay teen suicides went to Rutgers University in New Brunswick — where you guys are from.

GR: Yes, I remember that.

NB: Do you ever feel a responsibility to address these topics to your younger fans?

GR: I think that's a really important question, and that there are layers of responsibility. I think that we are all responsible to set a positive example for the younger audience we have, but it's also complicated because it's like, how much of that dictates what your art is going to be? How overtly political are you going to be in your art? And if you decide to just speak about this on the side or from the stage, but not in the songs, does that make it less valuable in some way? Those are things I think about. No Devolución, our new album, is basically apolitical. It doesn't confront a single thing that could be considered a political issue. But at the same time, so much of the record is about devotion and love, and I see that being connected even though it's not specific.

NB: So considering all we've talked about, do you think we've finally entered a point where the gay experience is going to become a matter of hard rock subject matter? Or do you think bands like yours are going to stay on your island somewhere?

GR: (Laughs) I think that even with Rise Against and Glasvegas being two pretty mainstream bands, that's pretty encouraging that that's happening right now. I also think it will become more of the conversation within rock music, but at the same time, I'm kind of hoping that we start moving fast enough politically to where it just becomes a part of everyone's conversation in a way that changes attitudes. I'm hoping that this will move at such an accelerated place that it just becomes a part of every sphere, in a way that you wouldn't even ask about its place in rock music.

NB: To a place where songs like these might seem completely passé and dated.

GR: Exactly. And I believe that they will be.

Thursday's sixth studio album, "No Devolución," is released today via Epitaph Records.


Towleroad Interview: Fagbug's Erin Davies

Fagbug On April 18, 2007, The National Day of Silence, a still unidentified person spray-painted the words "fAg" and "U R gay" on Erin Davies' Volkswagon New Beetle. Since then, the openly lesbian Davies (she's been out since she was a teen) has driven the so-called "fagbug," which now sports a sleeker, more colorful look, to almost every state in the country to speak to people about hate and acceptance. She's even made a documentary film about her momentous journeys in the famous Beetle. I caught up with her just before the fast approaching four-year anniversary of the life-changing act of vandalism on her car.

SP: Do you ever get lonely on your solo travels throughout the country?

ED: Sure, I get lonely. It gives you a lot of time to contemplate things. Driving so much however forces me to make the most of my experience once I arrive at my destination. Given that my car is a moving dialogue it pulls people in to talk to me wherever I stop on my way so even though I may be traveling alone, I'm not usually alone in my travels. Sometimes people talk to me so much on my stops, I wish I was able to do things uninterrupted like get gas, food, or whatnot.

SP: Are you still with your girlfriend?

ED: The relationship I was in when this venture began didn't withstand my 58 day road trip around the country. I am in a new relationship with my partner, Sonya. We're engaged to be married September 17th in Manchester, Vermont. We create beautiful paintings together and compliment one another in many ways.

SP: How does she feel about you being away so often?

ED: Sonya is very understanding of what I do. When I'm around I'm 100% around and available. When I'm not we talk for hours and make the most of it. She travels with me as much as her schedule allows.

SP: Have you ever been given any clues as to who may have vandalized your car back in April of 2007,,?

ED: A few days after my car was vandalized, someone stopped me one night at midnight telling me they saw the person who vandalized my car the night it happened. They said it was a male in a white car. A few days later I received a note saying, "it's a shame you made this up." The note had all the A's capitalized and the other letters lower case. It was the same writing as my car. I interviewed the person who left the note since they left their phone number. His name is Dan. I don't think he vandalized my car, but some people think he did. He's the only suspect I ever had.

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Towleroad Interview: Ben Cohen

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UK Rugby player Ben Cohen has been a very vocal straight ally to the gay community for years. In 2009, he openly stated that Rugby was ready for an openly gay player just months before Gareth Thomas' momentous coming out and earlier this year shot an anti-bullying video alongside Bravo's Andy Cohen. I spoke to him as he prepares to visit the United States in May for his Ben Cohen Acceptance Tour.

SP: You've recorded a couple of anti-bullying videos with words of support toward suicidal or bullied young people. What would you say to those who are doing the bullying?

BC: I say simply stop and think. What is that person were to finish their life because of you. How would that feel? Also, bullies often have issues of their own – why else would they do it. Maybe they need to face their issues.

SP: Have you yourself ever been the victim of a  bully?

BC: Not in the true sense of the word but I have been the victim of the media at times – goes with the territory, but it is still not nice. You have to say to yourself "Don’t take it personally" but thats not easy –especially when the claims made about you are unjust. It’s frustrating.

SP: You're touring the USA this summer with your "Acceptance Tour 2011" to combat homophobia. What sparked the idea for the tour?

BC: For some years now we have been receiving messages and emails from people all over the world with some heart wrenching stories. I really felt that I wanted to do something about it and I felt that I could. The video I made sparked off all sorts of things really, as well as emotions in me as a sports figure and as a Dad, so we started thinking about what we could do. Then we received an invitation to go to a sports bar in New York. And then a proposal from a Gay/Gay Friendly rugby club in Atlanta at the same time. We work with Geoff in Florida who just came on the team to help Jill with the Calendar, but then became involved representing my work in the USA and he has been linking up ever since pulling everything together. Exciting times!

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Towleroad Interview: Archie Comics' Dan Parent

A few months ago, Archie Comics writer and artist Dan Parent announced that the comic book publication giant will introduce it's first openly gay character in the pages of Veronica. Dan chatted with me about the character Kevin Keller, who will make his debut next month, and how he went about creating him.

Dp SP: What sparked the idea of introducing a gay character into the Archie Comics world?

DP: It all started in an editorial meeting.  I had an idea about Veronica going bonkers over a guy who was gay, and the powers that be liked it.  It coincided with our desire to expand diversity in Riverdale, so before long the idea became a reality.

SP: How did you come up with the final visual design of Kevin?

DP: Well, I tried to give him characteristics that some of the other guys didn't have, like wavy hair.  And there aren't many blonde guys in the group either. He's good looking, but has to be to catch veronica's eye. 

SP: How much did you think about stereotypes when creating Kevin?

DP: I was aware of them.  I didn't want him to be clichéd, but I also didn't want to run in the other direction either.  He's the boy next door. He's just gay.

SP: Were any gays or lesbians consulted during the creation of Kevin?

Yes, some gay friends of mine and Archie's were shown early versions of the story.

SP: What kind of feedback did they give?

DP: My gay friends liked where we were going with the story.  They felt that it was important to use the word "gay", and not skirt around the word.  Of course we used the word, thankfully, without hesitation.

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Towleroad Interview: John Amaechi

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Former NBA player John Amaechi was the first pro player in that league to come out as an openly gay man. He chatted with me recently about being an openly gay athlete, his newfound friendship with Ian McKellen as well as his involvement in this year's Gay Games.

SP: Now that it's been a few years, how does it feel to be the first NBA player to publicly come out of the closet?

JA: I have to be honest that I rarely think of that aspect, not because it was a bad experience - in fact, it was resoundingly the opposite, but I try to stay in the moment and now the issues facing the LGBT community feel so much bigger than any one professional athlete. On reflection, and in talking to people from workplaces and schools in parts of the US, parts of Africa and Eastern Europe, that I have spoken to in the last few years, I had it easy.

SP: A study in the UK found that the majority of soccer fans in that country are ready to support an openly gay player. How close do you think basketball fans in the US are to feeling that way?

JA: I have to tell you that the geek in me looked at that survey and it is really lacking in a number of the reliability and validity aspects you need in really good research. That being said, I do agree that the open-mindedness and general acceptance of difference (especially LGBT) in the UK is better than ever before, even amongst fans. I think that many fans in the US already feel that way, and are simply “waiting” to be explicitly told it’s ok to lose the machismo, bullshit, “no homo" attitude, by enough people in authority, including current straight players, owners, etc. However, America is different from the UK in that you still suffer from people actively creating and maintaining anti-LGBT laws, and that informs the attitudes of fans: "if gays are banned from adopting in my state there must be something wrong with them, right?”

SP: You recently told the Manchester Evening News: “I get into trouble sometimes with the gay community by saying it is not the job of sports stars in the closet to come out. That is not how change happens. For an under-prepared and psychologically stunted individual who plays sports at a high level to come out before they are ready is like being born prematurely.” At what point do you think a sports star is ready to come out?

JA: I think there are probably 5,000 mainstream professional athletes in the US, maybe 500 of them are LGBT, I just don’t think that is a key demographic in the quest for change. Some are “stunted” as I mentioned - not as many as I made out in that article in fairness - but I think it is a just a plot device we like to have in our mind that if a big enough star came out the fans would stop being homophobic, the family research council would rethink it’s policies and all would be well.

I was in Cologne for the gay games and I spoke to person after person - all from southern or central states in fairness - who were not out at work: high school teachers (a LOT of teachers) , several IT technicians, two journalists, a TV production person and others... all of whom felt it dangerous in one way or another for them to be out at work - all of whom said that gay athletes should come out even though they felt they couldn’t. When all teachers, engineers, etc, etc feel safe to come out, maybe then the argument for professional athletes to do the same would not ring with so much hypocrisy. A gay sportsman coming out just isn’t going to have the impact you think. Young people are mostly already won over in terms of LGBT human rights, and those with the real power, aren’t going to be swayed by an athlete, because they aren’t swayed by the hate crimes statistics, they aren’t swayed by the genuine love of gay couples and they aren’t swayed by the logical argument for equality.

SP: How close to you think we are to having an an active, openly gay player in the NBA?

JA: One could be outed at any second, but not close otherwise. Also, we should note that lots of professional athletes are out in the same way that many in the LGBT community are out. They are out to family and/or close friends, to some of their team mates and coaches, but not to the universe - they are no more “In the closet than the numerous (a majority?) of LGBT people on-line whose profile obscures their face and says “out to everyone except family” or “not out at work."

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Movies: A Chat with Lisa Cholodenko and Julianne Moore of "The Kids Are All Right"

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Julianne Moore plants one on writer/director Lisa Cholodenko in Berlin earlier this year.

GuestbloggerNATHANIEL ROGERS
...prefers air conditioned movie theaters to hot beaches in the summer. He blogs daily at the Film Experience.


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If you've been reading Towleroad this week, you already know that the gay family comedy The Kids Are All Right hits theaters this weekend. We reviewed the film when it first premiered in this column's Sundance coverage, and Matthew met the cast, but when a film is this good, attention must be paid. It must be paid multiple times. I had the opportunity to sit down with the film's writer/director Lisa Cholodenko and star Julianne Moore to discuss the film.

If you don't know the name Lisa Cholodenko, you may know her films. She made an indelible mark on the indie scene with her debut, the druggy lesbian drama High Art (1998) which won her the Waldo Salt Screenwriting Award at Sundance. That film should have won Ally Sheedy and Patricia Clarkson Oscars twelve years ago, too, (neither was nominated) but things don't always work out the way they should. The randy relationship drama Laurel Canyon followed starring Frances McDormand, Kate Beckinsale and Christian Bale and then a Dorothy Allison adaptation with Cavedweller (2004). Then, early this year, Cholodenko returned to Sundance, the scene of her original success, and history repeated itself with instant raves for The Kids Are All Right.

MORE (as well as JULIANNE MOORE) AFTER THE JUMP...

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