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As Ban Looms, Gay Nigerians Enjoy A Night Out

6a00d8341c730253ef017c33704433970b-800wiNigeria's House of Representatives is currently reviewing a Senate-approved law that would expand laws against homosexuality there to include not only a ban on same-sex marriage, but also one on any LGBT gathering, including night clubs. As the law is debated in corridors of power as well as on Nigeria's streets, BBC News traveled to an underground gay club in Lagos, Nigeria's capital, to get a sense of what it's like to be gay in the African country.

From that report:

"A friend invited me here a few months ago," one chatty spectator says excitedly. "I love this place because it makes me feel at home."

This gathering of members of the gay and lesbian community in Lagos is held regularly, albeit discreetly, but it could soon be illegal.

The vast majority of gay Nigerians may not be interested in this kind of event but they still have to hide their sexuality in this conservative society.

Despite the jovial atmosphere, there is heightened caution, and no-one is allowed to take any photos.

The thought of being identified as being gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender in a country where the public still turns to mob justice haunts some here.

And that is a huge concern for Richard (not his real name): "If you don't become discreet and try to hide yourself, even the man on the street will want to also act on the bill because it has been passed."

"If you're walking on the street and he stones you, he knows the law would stand for him because the law is against you."

A number of foreign nations have condemned the potential Nigerian law, but proponents are using this international opposition to bolster their argument: homosexuality is a colonial creation being imported from abroad. Opponents, meanwhile, insist laws against sodomy and gay people are the real colonial remnants.


London Police Warn Gay Clubbers About Tainted Drugs After One Man Dies, Two Collapse Following Night Out

Police have issued a warning after three incidents at gay nightclubs in London over the weekend, Pink News reports:

AreaA man is known to have collapsed at Area Club in the early hours of Sunday morning. He was pronounced dead at 5am. A second man collapsed at the same club while a third was taken ill at Barcode. The latter two have been hospitalised.

The first two men were found with a so-far unidentified white powder.

The cause of death has not been ascertained but police have issued a warning to anyone considering using drugs at Vauxhall. A spokesperson for the Metropolitan Police said: “Police urge any recreational drug users to be extremely careful if they are considering using drugs of any sort, in particular at venues in the Vauxhall area. Lambeth officers are appealing for anyone who can assist with enquiries to come forward as soon as possible. A quick response could help us prevent contaminated drugs circulating further and may save someone’s life.”


Is It Unusual For Straight Guys To Frequent Gay Bars?

Gaybar2A newlywed woman wrote to Dear Abby to ask whether she should be worried that her fit and attractive husband is hanging out with the gays at drinking establishments.

Dan has been going out with Harry to gay bars where he gets “hit on” often. I can tell he likes the attention. I should also mention that Dan seems to be considerably less interested in sex lately.

His going to gay bars every night is beginning to worry me. If I say anything to him about it, he guilt-trips me about my travel.

Is it normal for a straight man to seek out the company of gay men?

Abby replies: "It is unusual for a straight man to frequent gay bars. But would you feel better if Dan were going to straight bars every night and being hit on by women while you’re away?"

Just because a man hangs out at a gay bar does not mean he is into guys, okay? Some of my best-friends are straight, and, yes, they venture out to the homo pubs with me. Never have they been "turned." And if this "Dan" is indeed of the gay variety, it's not because he's chilling at gay bars.


Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/2012/04/05/3536469/dear-abby-husband-going-to-gay.html#storylink=cpy

A History of the Gay Circuit Party: VIDEO

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Posted online last week is Got 2B There a full 1998 documentary by Jose M. Torrealba examining the controversies and the spirit of the circuit party, with footage from the White Party (Palm Springs), the GMHC Morning Party (Fire Island), and Black & Blue (Montreal), and commentary from those for the parties, and opposed to them.

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NYC's Former Limelight Nightclub is Becoming an IHOP

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New York's famed former Limelight nightclub is becoming an International House of Pancakes.

The Real Deal writes:

Retail broker Gene Spiegelman, an executive director at Cushman & Wakefield, said IHOP should thrive in New York City as Chock Full o'Nuts and fast-food chain Nedick's once did. 

"I can see the value of putting a 24-hour, seven-day, value-priced restaurant near subways, near schools. I think the location at Sixth [Avenue] and 20th [Street] is a great location," but, Spiegelman added, "The real estate is odd [because] the physical nature of the building is not traditional for an IHOP." 

The old Limelight is the subject of a new documentary from Magnolia Pictures.

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Diddy Apologizes for Homophobic Slur at Nightclub: VIDEO

Diddy tweeted an apology today following the posting of a video shot over the weekend in which he used racial and homophobic slurs at a clubgoer at a BET Awards after-party event. Diddy was apparently angry that the clubgoer was drinking Grey Goose and not the Ciroc vodka for which he is spokesman, TMZ reports.

Diddy Diddy began shouting at the man, "B*tch ass n**gas ... put that sh*t down ... before I come smack that purple shirt off your ass."

It appears Diddy grabs ice and throws it at the man ... before screaming, "What the f**k are you gonna do, b*tch? F**king f*ggot ass light skin n**gas get the f*ck out of my face."

Wrote Diddy on Twitter earlier today:

"I'm a child God and I should be better no matter what somone says to me. I'm sorry for the ignorant way I repesented myself and us....To all my childen of God ... I have backslid and regressed. Forgive me for my ignorance. Pray for me pls. I know better and I am better...I have a responibility that I promise I will live up to. And I'm more dissapointed in myself than you know. I will humble myself and learn. bottom line is I'm sorry to all! Pls find it in your heart to accept my apology. I will do better and be Greater And a source of positivity!

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