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05/24/2013

Weekend Movies: Behind the Candelabra

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Michael Douglas and Matt Damon share a bed and the story of Liberace and Scott Thorson

BY NATHANIEL ROGERS 

"Too much of a good thing is wonderful"

That was a signature catchphrase of Liberace, the classical pianist who became a household name as a flamboyant nightclub entertainer. Liberace was born Vladziu Valentino Liberace but known by "Walter" or "Lee" to his intimates -- even the names were too many… too much! He didn't just popularize the catchphrase but lived it maintaining his most unlikely monster career for roughly four decades -- which is, what, a century in showbiz years?

The new biopic BEHIND THE CANDELABRA, premiering Sunday on HBO, is smart enough to adopt it as tagline. But is it too much? Is it wonderful? Hollywood studios thought so, at least in regards to the first question. Director Steven Soderbergh hasn't been shy about telling the press that the story was too gay for the movie studios and while we can't know the ins and outs of how true this is or to what extent he tried to make it happen as a theatrical feature before going to television, it sounds trueish. Hollywood has been curiously reluctant to relive the mainstream success of Brokeback Mountain (a major hit grossing nearly $100 million in domestic release) even though they're usually downright shameless about cashing in on any success with quick imitation.

But bless Soderbergh for pushing it forward, even if he's a weird fit for the material. As a director he's never been exactly "flamboyant" visually, preferring subtle formal experimentation to Liberace's rhinestone-slathered "look at me" effort.

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Towleroad Talking Points: Wackos React To End of Boy Scout Ban

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BY SAM GREISMAN

A look back at today's top stories

BOY SCOUTS

As expected the anti-gay nutjobs have come out of the woodwork to react to the partial end to the Boy Scouts' ban on gays. NOM's Brian Brown says that the gays will sexualize the Boy Scouts. I'm not even sure what that means. Bumbling former presidential candidate Rick Perry is greatly disappointed by the Scouts and Tony Perkins of the FRC predicts that God will be ushered out of the scouting world

Lawrence O'Donnell sat down with openly gay Eagle Scout Zach Wahls last night to discuss the end of the ban on gay scouts

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GAY NEWS

Last night the Nevada Assembly advanced a bill that would put same-sex marriage on the 2016 ballot. Shortly before the vote, 18-year-old Riley Roberts delivered a powerful and stirring plea on behalf of his two moms. Also yesterday's NYU Commencement ceremony was all about marriage equality as David Boies and Edie Windsor were two of the speakers

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ENTERTAINMENT

Gay rapper Ethan Kaplan has a new video that is all about the gay art of tanning. And who would have thought that a movie about Liberace would contain so much gay sex!?

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VIDEO OF THE DAY

A new job for dogs: dentist to lions!

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If You Are Slightly Obsessed with the Return of the Cicadas, This is For You: VIDEO

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The birth, death, and desperate lifestyle of these fascinating insects in an epic 7 minutes.

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Towleroad Guide to the Tube #1375

UFO: There's something in the skies over Santee, California.

STEPHEN FRY: Appearing on Craig Ferguson...

THIS WEEK IN UNNECESSARY CENSORSHIP: Jimmy Kimmel's weekly tribute to the FCC.

MADONNA: On family, feuds, and fashion.

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News: Scott Thorson, Atheists, Jeremy Affeldt, ENDA, Amanda Bynes

RoadActor Tim Curry recovering after stroke...

RoadFOX News, CNN underreport anti-gay hate crime while obsessing over Jodi Arias.

AffeldtRoadSan Francisco Giants Jeremy Affeldt says SF transformed his negative feelings toward gays: ''There's a chapter in there of me coming to San Francisco and being hesitant because I had homophobia, and now I don't,'' he said. ''I see more San Francisco as a city of love and a city of passion and compassion. It's unbelievable this city. To see that and to have my heart change as a city I didn't ever want to come to, to a city that I'm so thankful I'm going to be part of for a long time, it talks about that. For me, it was an awesome deal.''

RoadAmanda Bynes arrested after throwing bong out of her window at NYC's Biltmore.

RoadJon Stewart cast Gael Garcia Bernal as the lead in his directorial debut Rosewater: "Stewart is taking a 12-week hiatus from hosting Comedy Central's "The Daily Show" in order to make the movie. 'Daily Show' correspondent John Oliver will take over hosting duties for eight weeks during Stewart's absence."

RoadAn interview with Harvey Milk's nephew Stuart. "There are many wonderful leaders who have stood on my uncle's shoulders and through their leadership moved equality forward, but my uncle is still my highest inspiration. I remember one of my last conversations with him, in which he said the upsurge in death threats he was getting every day was evidence to him that he was making a difference in the world. The courage he had, knowing he would be killed, to carry on and to record a message that would be used to hurdle LGBT rights forward after that violent result happened is still a benchmark of courage rarely matched."

GeorgiaRoadWhat was behind the anti-gay violence in Georgia?

RoadThe Pope: Atheists are not monsters.

RoadamfAR guest pays $1.5 million to go to space with Leonardo DiCaprio.

RoadPortugal allows gay co-adoption: "The move allows gay men and women the right to co-adopt their partner’s children if the other parent dies. In fact, the approval of gay co-adoption – with 99 votes in favour, 94 against and nine abstentions – was considered by many as a surprise, making Portugal the fifth country in the world to allow same-sex co-adoption, alongside Finland, Austria, Germany and Israel."

RoadMake sure you don't miss the 'dance of the planets'.

RoadWell, hello Jesse.

RoadScott Thorson on Liberace: "There have been rumors that Lee had an affair with Rock Hudson early in their careers. But Rock wasn't any more Lee's type than Lee was Rock's. The supposed affair never happened. In the years we were together, Lee never mentioned knowing Rock. Although hundreds of celebrities came to Lee's shows, Rock never made an appearance. The two men moved in completely different circles, socially and professionally."

RoadStephen King wrote a non-horror novel and now he's talking about it.

RoadAndrew Garfield and Tom Sturridge are a happy hipster couple.

GallagherRoadMaggie Gallagher: Saying heterosexuality is better isn't anti-gay.

RoadBrown bears released after 10 years in captivity. "Ari and Arina, both 10 years old, were taken to their new, much larger home, by the international animal charity group Four Paws, which helped sedate and transport them."

RoadMichael Douglas gets emotional about Behind the Candelabra.

RoadCockroaches' sense of taste has evolved so they can beat traps.

RoadENDA won't see action until July. “It would have been the preference of many LGBT advocates to hold the markup in May or June, but the committee has a very busy schedule, and I do think that some policy makers in Washington, D.C., have a philosophy that nothing should be done on any gay rights issue until after the Supreme Court rules in the marriage equality cases,” he said. Almeida said he disagrees with that philosophy, but, “[M]any people in this town have decided to put all LGBT issues on hold until the Supreme Court rules.”

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Benjamin Alire Sáenz's 'Everything Begins And Ends At The Kentucky Club': Book Review

BY GARTH GREENWELL

The characters in Benjamin Alire Sáenz’s masterful collection are all travelers between borders. Most obviously, they cross between El Paso and Ciudad Juarez, where each of them at some point finds himself in the bar of the book’s title. But these seven stories are really concerned with more difficult boundaries—of class, language, sexuality—that both set these men apart and divide them from themselves.

KentuckyclubJuarez is famous from American headlines as one of the most violent cities in the world. Sáenz, who teaches at the University of Texas at El Paso, doesn’t look away from its troubles, and his characters live with the knowledge that “all the laughter in the world could be swept away by a capricious wind at any moment.” But their lives aren’t reducible to headlines, and what remains of these stories isn’t the shock of tragedy and crime, but the human response to it.

Tragedy and crime are at the heart of the book’s first story, “He Has Gone to Be with the Women.” Two men—one a well-known Mexican-American writer, the other a Mexican visiting to care for a dying relative—speak after months of silent glances in an El Paso café. As they begin to know each other, tentatively and uncertainly, each explores the grief the other carries—two brothers lost to a car accident, a mother to the plague of violence against women in Juarez—and grief becomes an occasion for love. “His tears were soaking my shirt,” the writer says. “I wanted to taste them, bathe in them, drown in them.” “I wasn’t the falling-in-love kind of man,” he says later. “But watching Javier at that moment, I wanted to need him. I wanted him to be the air I breathed.” When Javier disappears, gone to “all the nameless women who have been buried in the desert,” the narrator doesn’t know what to do with the feeling that has been awakened: “I was angry at my own heart that refused to give up hope despite the fact that I begged it to give up.” 

Earlier this month, Sáenz was awarded the PEN/Faulkner Award for fiction—he is the first Latino writer to receive the prize—and the book is a finalist for a Lambda Literary Award. It has been met with a great deal of praise, but some critics have raised concerns about the emotionality of these stories, hinting at something excessive or melodramatic about them—as though one final border they cross is that of propriety, the closely policed lines of what we sometimes call “good taste,” lines seldom free from often unstated assumptions about race, class, gender, and sexuality.


Benjamin-alire-saenzIt may be true that the emotion in these stories strikes a higher pitch than most current American literary fiction. When passion breaks out in these pages, often after being long repressed, it can take on operatic force: “I wasn’t just sobbing, I was howling,” says the narrator of one story before making a confession of love. “I kept hitting my own chest as if I was trying to tell my heart not to do what it was doing, to stop hurting me, my heart, and I found myself kneeling on the floor and howling and I didn’t even know why.”

But such notes are in the heart’s range, and as I read I found Sáenz’s willingness to sound them brave and bracing. One of the glories of this collection—one of the best new books I’ve read in years—is its full-throatedness, its unapologetic willingness to give voice to extremes of experience, even when those extremes challenge the tidy canons of propriety. Good art, especially good queer art, has always posed such challenges. Love, grief, hopelessness and rage wear their brightest clothes in Sáenz’s work, sharing the page with a clear-eyed acknowledgment that the world is seldom accommodating of individual desires. Love may not often win in these gorgeous stories, but it is always fierce. 

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Garth Greenwell is the author of Mitko, which won the 2010 Miami University Press Novella Prize and was a finalist for the Edmund White Debut Fiction Award and a Lambda Award. Beginning this fall, he will be an Arts Fellow at the University of Iowa Writers' Workshop.

Posted May. 24,2013 at 2:07 PM EST by in Benjamin Alire Sáenz, Books, Garth Greenwell, Mexico, Review, Texas | Permalink | Comments (0)



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