1. Paul R says

    Seems like pretty basic advice. At least for The Gays. The straights can take longer to catch on.

  2. Lumpmoose says

    Yeah, it’s very basic for Dan but it’s important information so I’m glad it’s getting packaged and put out there in different ways.

  3. says

    It’s Gayle Rubin, “Thinking Sex.” A brilliant article from 1984. I teach it every time I do intro to GL Studies. It’s also about how various privileged groups (families, doctors, law enforcement, clergy) stigmatize those outside the circle to confirm their own power.