Lesbian with Foreign Spouse Threatened Under DOMA to Attend State of the Union Address

Kelly Costello, a Potomac, Maryland woman whose native Peruvian spouse is threatened with deportation under DOMA, will attend the State of the Union address as the guest of Rep. Jerrold Nadler (D-NY), the lead sponsor of the Uniting American Families Act, the Washington Blade reports:

CostelloSpeaking with the Blade, Costello said she’s “grateful and excited” for what she called a “once-in-a-lifetime experience” — particularly in the wake of Obama’s call to include bi-national gay couples as part of comprehensive immigration reform.

“This is something that we have been fighting for a long time,” Costello said. “People before me have fought for it. I feel like, right now, we are living in an important historical moment where the president has already addressed providing equal rights for us, and I think it’s really come to forefront.”

The couple, who married in D.C. in 2011, is in danger of separation because the Defense of Marriage Act prohibits Costello from sponsoring Morales via a marriage-based green card application for residency in the United States.

The Uniting American Families Act (UAFA) was reintroduced last week (with bipartisan support), as we wait on whether same-sex binational couples will be included as part of comprehensive immigration reform legislation.


  1. mike8787 says

    I don’t think the title of this post — and the words selectively omitted — could have been more confusing.

  2. redball says

    awkward headline. i interpreted it as: “becaused of DOMA, they’re being forced to attend the state of the union address?!?”

  3. says

    I hope this issue also includes the recognition of valid foreign marriages to US citizens……..not just marriages celebrated within the USA.

    US law must start obeying Private International Law…..otherwise foreign countries will not recognise US legal proceedings, eg probate, matrimony, contracts.

  4. Icebloo says

    This issue should have been addressed YEARS ago. Hopefully the Democrats will sort this out for thousands of gay couples in similar circumstances.

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  6. EJC says

    Are you sure they are being “forced” to attend. the same information was stated on NPR as “invited” and they happily accepted! Visual presence alway is an important part of any “awkward” situation!