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Boston Mayoral Candidate Michael Ross Talks About His Gay Mom

For the first time, Boston Mayoral candidate Michael Ross talks with the Boston Herald about his gay mom, describing what it was like to grow up with her and how it shaped who he is. His mom, Suzanna London, told him she was gay in the early 80's:

Ross“She’s in love with a woman. What am I supposed to do with this?” Ross remembered thinking back when he was 12 and 13 and anxious, like any teenager, to fit in, not stand out. His response to his mother: anger. “I moved back in with my father for a few months.”

“It was a year,” corrected his mother.

“I didn’t want people to come to my house or ask questions about me and my family,” said Ross. “I never told anyone.”

“But they knew two women were living together in a house,” his mother said. “Kids were cruel.”

At school some called Ross’ mother names. “I’d deny (she was gay). ‘You don’t know what you’re talking about,’ I’d say.”

And no one did talk about it openly. Not at school or in their Newton neighborhood or at temple and Hebrew school. Not even, for a while, at home.

“I was living in the shadows,” London said.

“They were closeted even in their own house,” says Ross, remembering how his mother and her partner slept in separate bedrooms.

“I’m first and foremost a mother. You’re as happy as your most happy child,” his mother said. “I never knew how hard it was for him.”

Ross 's father Stephen was rescued from the Dachau concentration camp, his whole family having been killed by Nazis.

Added Ross:

“It’s where my values come from, these two amazing people with radically different lives.”

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  1. Oh snap, de Blasio style politics have entered the Boston mayoral race. Is this a game changer for the big job in Boston?

    Posted by: Jose Barros | Sep 9, 2013 11:57:38 AM

  2. It's been so many years for us with “Dear Leader” (just kidding Tommy, we love ya). We’ve got 15 candidates!! It’s WICKED overwhelming and hard to get a clear message from any of them.

    Posted by: NE Rich | Sep 9, 2013 8:38:39 PM

  3. Harvard man John Connolly will be the next mayor. You can take that to the bank. Tommy needs to retire to Florida or something. WE need term limits.

    Posted by: ratbastard | Sep 9, 2013 10:22:53 PM

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