1. chad says

    Black and homophobic,no it can’t be. Well maybe these drug-infested,violent,mysognistic thugs find Jesus just when it comes to gays,oh yeah thats it. Just like their moms who go to low-rent preachers every sunday who spew homophobic drivel they feel they have a free pass to be uneducated homophobes.

  2. Derrick from Philly says

    “Black and homophobic,no it can’t be.”

    Towleroad’s new resident white racist homo, no it can’t be. Those roles belongs to Sargon Bighorn and Oscar in Miami.

    CHAD, everytime you think of blacks and ghettos, blacks and drugs, blacks and violence–I want you to go to the nearest river in your home town. Then picture the First Family of the United States in your mind. Then, look down at the water–the water– way way down below the bridge, CHAD….the water.

    Look, look down, CHAD, you know what needs to be done. You’ll be free, CHAD…free of all the blacks– once and for all.

    Of course, your frustration will only come back in the great Hereafter when you find out that the Good Lord is the spitting image of Anwar Sadat.

  3. Jesse says

    “Black and homophobic,no it can’t be.”

    Wow Chad. You sound a lot like the bigots who say “Gay and promiscuous, no it can’t be.” and “Gay and HIV+, no it can’t be.”

    Stereotyping other minorities does nothing to elevate your status.

  4. says

    I watched this……are all straights wankers ? I agree that straights seem to be incredibly scared to even be seen with a homo and as for being thought of as a homo,….it’s the ultimate nightmare ……but, well, fuck um.
    (I was trying to think of the reasons why they are so scared but my brain doesn’t give a shit about straights).

  5. pussyfoot says

    totes rules that he called lil’ wayne out on kissing baby, could of also brought up their weird “father/son” relationship, they arent FYI, they just have a you know daddy and boi type relationship(no homo)

  6. Derrick from Philly says

    Damn, CRISPY, you’re right again. How misogynistic of me to think that God had to be a “he”. Well, I was thinking more in terms of God’s origins, you know. Everybody knows that God is from the Middle-East or Northeast Africa as my Afrocentric friends use to say.

    Hey, I’d love to introduce CHAD to all those Afrocentric African Studies graduate students I knew back in the 90s. They’d get a kick out of him, and then they’d kick him. Not a kick in the ass, of course, ’cause it’s strictly No Homo.

  7. Yuki says

    Geez. “No homo” is one of the dumbest phrases I’ve ever heard.

    Not to mention rude. I once told someone “Happy birthday” and his reply was, “Thanks. No homo.”

    Such a fucking stupid phrase.

  8. MissNee says

    I hate “no homo”

    Re: Lil Wayne and Babys’ relationship. Lil Waynes father cut out when he was young. around the time Wayne started rapping(after his step father was killed), he met Baby and his brother Slim (they started Cash Money). Baby became a mentor to Wayne and let wayne tell it his father. In fact they don’t give a damn about that photo (old ass news) and have stated that’s what they do and if no one likes it then fuck ’em. Which I admire. If you grow up without a parent and someones comes along at fills that role, what is the problem with that? It’s good to know that the woman i see as a second mother to me is some sort of “weird” relationship because she’s not my biological mom. not everything is a perv man showin’ a young twink the way. *eye roll*

  9. MissNee says

    One question I do have is where are the same people equating black=homophobia when there are a million post about white christians/mormons bank rolling props, beating the shit out of gays, lesbians and TGs?….not one person says “white people and homophobia..what’s new?”

    Glad to know who the monolithic group is

  10. says

    I was once sitting with a group of friends playing dominos. One said “I’m behind you, no homo” to one of the other guys. I responded, “I’m behind you — homo.”

    And suddenly, they understood.

  11. Derrick from Philly says

    “The use of “no homo” IS homophobic and indefensible.

    You appear not to have noticed that, so I thought I’d point it out.”

    No kiddin’, homo.

  12. Toto says

    Uhmmm the term ‘no homo’ was used by the dumb ass shock jocks Opie and Anthony more than a decade ago. Not that I care who made such an idiotic term.

  13. Derrick from Philly says

    “Uhmmm the term ‘no homo’ was used by the dumb ass shock jocks Opie and Anthony more than a decade ago”

    Toto, thank you…thank you, thank you, thank you.

    As you said, it doesn’t matter what hetero (or closet/dl) idiots made up the phrase, but you just proved that all homophobia and anti-gay slurs do not originate among black folks. You hear that, CHAD?

    THANK YOU, TOTO, you just slew Alvira Gulch.


    All old queens are homophobic and indefensible. We got to be like that the old fashioned way: we eaaaaaaahhhrn it.

  14. John says

    The reason there’s no outrage against “white homophobia” – even though Western Christianity has a long and grusome history of extremely violent homophobia -is because our society values white lives and experiences more than everyone else’s put together. Of course, they won’t say it quite like that. But the racist implications are quite clear.

    Whites are unique and special individuals who must be judged on their own merits. Whereas Blacks, Latinos, Middle Easterners, and Asians are just ravenous “barbarian” hordes who all look, think, and behave alike.

    The message?

    White people are the only folks who have full access to their humanity.

    Dark skinned people are sub-human insects.

  15. SFshawn says

    “White people are the only folks who have full access to their their humanity.”

    Not if they are gay! There are millions of white gay humans in the world and we are not equal on any level to the heteros,even the black,latino,middle eastern and asian
    heteros. Reality check John.

  16. Derrick from Philly says


    I can’t use intelligent arguments like you just did–anymore. I’ve given up. Now, I use whatever argument the bottle leads me to.

  17. Derrick from Philly says

    “There are millions of white gay humans in the world and we are not equal on any level to the heteros,even the black,latino,middle eastern and asian
    heteros. Reality check John.”

    See what I mean, JOHN? Unbelievable and unreal. We got the John Birch White Homosexual Society. Unbelievable

  18. says

    The reason black people are blamed disproportionately for homophobia is racism. The only reason there is any difference in how black people and white are viewed by gay people is racism: to the extent that there are any actual differences they are created by unequal access to the things that kill bigotry: money, safety, and and education. Because black people AND gay people appear so infrequently in the media, I think it is difficult for each group to get past the images that anger us.

    Gay people and people of color have it made in comparison to the young, the poor, the disabled, and the transgendered. I think having any of those differences is largely mitigated if you are straight and white. I think it is easier to be gay and white than it is to be straight and Black.

    When a disabled transgender Latina teenager is valued as much as a fifty-year-old Caucasian straight male athlete, we’ll all be safe.

    And excusing “no homo” furthers any reasonable goal— how?

  19. xyz2 says

    Chad, I’m not sure what world you live in or what your experiences have been regarding “The Blacks,” I guess you’re still blaming them because you can’t get married, right? Everything you posted about “The Blacks,” is associated with some negative connotation I’ve witnessed in the white community 10 fold, but I guess its different due to their “Whiteness.” Please accept Derrick from Philly’s suggestion and check out that water thing. Sounds like fun.

  20. g_whiz says

    Cool idea. The next time I make out with a guy in public, I’m just going to shout “no homo” afterwards, and all will be forgiven. This is really stupid logic, just saying something isn’t so doesn’t make it true. There are plenty of straight acting closet cases that wish saying “no homo” warded off the specter of gayness though. Dream on.

  21. Drew says

    In my entire life, Lil Wayne is the only human being that made me nautious just by the way he looks.

    Not sure what it is specifically (it’ everything!), but he just makes me want to throw up at the simple sight of him. That was before this ‘no homo’ shit.

  22. says

    I had no idea.
    I guess I don’t pay attention to lyrics.
    This interests me a lot. I think I’ll be listening out more for it, especially from my friends, coworkers, and random people on the street.

    And that Brian is funny. No homo.

  23. "Jedi" is the new "gay." says

    I’m with Derrick from Philly: I love it when WASPy gays target (black) hip-hop artists. They remind me of wingnut republicans who shout veiled racist threats against Obama.

    Does the phrase “double standard” mean anything to you, Bryan Safi? Gays should be the LAST minority targeting a minority.

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