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Story from the Frontline of 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell':
LCpl Danny Hernandez

"Stories from the Frontlines: Letters to President Barack Obama” is a new media campaign launched to underscore the urgent need for congressional action and presidential leadership at this critical point in the fight to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” (DADT). 

Frontline_final02  As we approach the markup of the Defense Authorization bill in the Senate and House Armed Services Committees, SLDN and a coalition of voices supporting repeal, will share open letters to the President from a person impacted by this discriminatory law. We are urging the President to include repeal in the Administration’s defense budget recommendations, but also to voice his support as we work to muster the 15 critical votes needed on the Senate Armed Services Committee to include repeal. The Defense Authorization bill represents the best legislative vehicle to bring repeal to the president’s desk. It also was the same vehicle used to pass DADT in 1993. By working together, we can help build momentum to get the votes! We ask that you forward and post these personal stories.


Danny-Hernandez  April 28, 2010

President Barack H. Obama

The White House

1600 Pennsylvania Avenue Northwest

Washington, DC 20500

Dear Mr. President,

I was humbled to have earned the title of U.S. Marine just two years ago – my goal since I was 14 years old. But just nine weeks ago, I was informed of my discharge under the “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” law.

Mr. President, if I could be serving my country right now – I would be. Instead, I was fired while you were my Commander and Chief.

The stories we hear of discharged service members are becoming far too common and are based around a primitive law that we should have eliminated years ago. As this injustice continues to hurt our country, we are in desperate need of your support and leadership as we work to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.”

After I finished my training, I was a 20-year-old reservist. I returned to school to continue working on my undergraduate degree with hopes of becoming an officer. I wish I could tell you about my distinguished service, about stories from the war overseas, or about how being a Marine has changed my perspective on life, but I can’t.

My discharge came from the fear that my sexual orientation was going to be revealed by a third party; a group of unknown Marines who threatened to use my sexuality as a way to retaliate after a dispute in a bar. I had spoken with two fellow Marines from my unit; both of whom I trusted. They calmed me, told me that it wasn’t a big deal, and reassured me that everything was going to be fine.

I returned to drill only to find out that the two Marines – the Marines I confided in -- had mentioned it and word had reached my 1st Sergeant and Commanding Officer. They told the two Marines to submit written statements detailing everything I had told them. When I walked in to my 1st Sergeant's office the first question out of his mouth was, "Are you gay?"

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I answered honestly. The investigation was now underway.

The 1st Sergeant proceeded to tell me that there was no way he could protect my privacy in the matter, citing the “grapevine,” and having no control over what people within the unit said or did. I was told by my CO to hang tight and wait to hear from the Battalion Commander.

Ultimately I was discharged, a fate I found out only through my persistent calls and emails. My dreams of being an officer had been shattered and it felt as if the world was tumbling down on me and all I could do was step aside.

Upon earning the title of Marine, I took an oath and vowed to “defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic.” This enemy is a domestic one, and with your direction as Commander and Chief, this is a war in which we can be victorious.

“Semper Fidelis” is the Marine Corps motto meaning “Always Faithful.” Not only am I willing and anxious to go overseas, but I am prepared to pay the ultimate sacrifice in order to protect our freedoms.

I have remained faithful to my country; please be faithful to me.

Very Respectfully,

LCpl. Danny Hernandez, USMC (Separated)

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  1. I don't see the homophobic right rushing to join the military. just using the liberties that this marine wants to defend. the miltary is dangerous work not a night out on manhunt. maybe all these small minded people with small dicks should stop worrying about peoples sex life and worry about real problems this country faces. where did glenn beck rush limbaugh and the rest of faux news serve, the local coctail lounge.i think anyone who choses to serve deserve our appreciation

    Posted by: walter | Apr 28, 2010 8:10:13 AM

  2. I get the story, and I feel for the guy. But I get too distracted when he says "Commander and Chief" instead of "Commander in Chief". If you're writing to the President, at least get his title correct.

    Posted by: Bradford | Apr 28, 2010 8:42:45 AM

  3. The thing I don't understand is I thought it was "Don't Ask, Don't Tell!" How is it OK for his commander to ASK him if he's gay?! The whole thing about not asking and not telling should be -- since we have the fucking policy as it stands now -- that if he doesn't say, they shouldn't be asking. This allowing a third party to go to the brass seems a violation of the process to me. I don't get it, but then again, I don't get the military lifestyle. End this thing, Mr President.

    Posted by: princely54 | Apr 28, 2010 9:32:05 AM

  4. One of the most vocal defenders of DADT is Senator McCain. His chief policy advisor is Chris Brose at

    Posted by: TCW | Apr 28, 2010 10:38:00 AM

  5. @ Bradford:

    Petty much?
    The man joined the service, wanted to serve our nation and cowardly outed and you want to find fault with his grammar? Tragic.

    Is that Obama is stonewalling DADT repeal, because the solders who writes him letters don't get his full title correct?

    Silly silly queen.

    Posted by: Chris Cruz | Apr 28, 2010 1:47:18 PM

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