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New Jersey Assembly Passes Marriage Equality in 42-33 Vote


Marriage equality has passed the New Jersey Assembly in a 42-33 vote. The bill passed the Senate last week.

Governor Chris Christie has vowed to take "swift action" to veto the bill.

The Star-Ledger reports:

Assemblyman Reed Gusciara (sic) (D-Mercer) said in a news release after the vote that "this is probably one of the highlights of my legislative tenure – no matter what the ultimate outcome may be."

“For those who oppose this measure, I realize that this is a difficult decision to make," Gusciora said. "It is a question that tests the fundamental protections of liberty founded in our federal and state constitutions."

Assemblyman Jay Webber ( R-Morris ), who voted against the measure, said on the floor that gays should not have the ability to have " their desires redefine marriage for everyone else. "'

"The bill is about redefining an important institution of civil society and that should give us all great pause," he said.

A two-thirds vote in each chamber is necessary to override Christie's veto, and can be attempted as many times as necessary until January 2014. A veto override would require 13 more votes.

An early vote counted the vote as 41-33. Freedom to Marry tweets: "UPDATE: One yes Assembly member had a broken button during #NJ4M Assembly vote. Actual vote count was 42-33!"


Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 4:48 PM EST by | Permalink | Comments (17)

News: Dog Tease, Adele, Salmon, India, Matt Bomer, Pandas

RoadAdele will record new album, won't take five year break.

RoadIf Obama signs an executive order banning LGBT discrimination, it looks as though it will be in good hands: "Patricia Shiu heads the Labor Department’s Office of Federal Contract Compliance Programs (OFCCP), which enforces contractual promises of equal employment opportunity for companies doing business with the federal government."

Auli_adamRoadLambert and Koskinen: In the NY Fashion Week hair wars, nobody else stands a chance.

RoadFashion icon collapses, dies at NYC show.

RoadIndian Supreme Court hears appeals on decriminalization of gay sex: "Homosexuality should be seen in the context of changing society as many things which were earlier unacceptable have become acceptable with passage of time, the Supreme Court observed on Thursday."

RoadUltimate Dog Tease to be a movie.

RoadJ Lo tweets photo of herself nuzzling boytoy Casper Smart's bicep, deletes it.

RoadFirst GSA meets on military base: "A group of about 75 people made history Feb. 13 at the Great Lakes Naval Station, north of Chicago. It was the first public meeting of Gay, Lesbian and Supporting Sailors ( GLASS ) , believed to be the first non-academy, general base-sanctioned gay support group on any U.S. base in the world. The Coast Guard can boast of having the first gay-straight alliance at a service academy, and such academies are located on a base."

RoadRobyn Crawford, Whitney Houston's rumored lover, speaks to Esquire.

Hs_bomerRoadMatt Bomer's sophomore high school yearbook photo.

RoadKotaku salutes transgender video gaming pioneer Dani Bunten.

RoadFDA on the brink of approving genetically engineered salmon for human consumption: "This would be the first genetically engineered animal on supermarket shelves in the United States. The salmon is engineered to produce growth hormones year-round that cause the fish to grow at twice the normal rate."

RoadHigh school football player in rural America talks about being gay.

RoadChinese survey shows acceptance of homosexuality among youth: "More than 80 percent of Chinese people born after the 1980s hold no discriminatory beliefs regarding homosexuality, according to a survey on marriage perspectives conducted by, a major Chinese dating website. The survey results, which were published in the Monday edition of the Beijing News, indicate that 83 percent of respondents born between 1980 and 1989, as well as 82 percent of those born after 1990, do not disapprove of homosexuality."

RoadNPH and David Burtka have a Valentine's Day dinner, tweet entire 9-course meal.

RoadPanda LiveCam.

FiredRoadMusic director's marriage gets him fired: "On Jan. 19, just back from a honeymoon trip to Mexico, followed by an emergency stay at Carolinas Medical Center for a ruptured appendix, he checked out of the hospital and dropped by St. Gabriel. There, he was handed a note by the Rev. Frank O'Rourke, the pastor with whom he had closely worked for more than four years. It read: 'Employees of St. Gabriel ... are expected to live within the moral tradition of the Church...Your civil marriage stands in direct opposition to the teaching of the Catholic Church, therefore ending your employment with us, effective today.."

RoadVictoria Jackson talks gay marriage, Communism, Obama...

RoadFOX News commentator Dr. Keith Ablow: Media Matters founder David Brock is dangerous because he was adopted: "This is an adopted boy who needs to plumb the depths of his psyche. He was adopted. Many adopted children are tremendously well-adjusted, but for some reason, this man feels he’s unloved and unloveable, shunted to the side, and that’s the antidote he feels: unlimited power."

Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 3:50 PM EST by | Permalink | Comments (8)

Conservative Radio Host Michael Berry Accused of Hit-and-Run Accident After Patronizing Gay Bar

Conservative radio host and former City Councilman Michael Berry was reportedly seen on security cameras in a hit-and-run accident with another vehicle outside TC's Show Bar in Houston's Montrose District on January 31, KPRC reports.

BerryTuderia Bennett, of Galena Park, told Houston police that he was working as a bouncer at the front door during a popular cross-dressing 'drag show' that was going on inside the club.   He watched the crash happen and told police he rushed up to the car after impact and got a good look at Berry behind the wheel.

Berry may have been leaving the bar:

The report also states, "The ongoing investigation indicates that the suspect is Michael Berry, a local radio talk show host."

Managers of the bar then turned over security camera video from inside the club to HPD investigators, and they write in an e-mail to Local 2 Investigates that their video confirms that Berry was in their establishment that night.

The e-mail reads, "Mr. Berry is one of those customers who has been to our establishment. The video in question that shows Mr. Berry in our establishment is in our possession. The local authorities have requested this same video and they are in possession to assist with their investigation." ...

...The victim told Local 2 Investigates he believes the conservative activist is trying to avoid the issue entirely because of his public stances involving gay people.

"If you're going to stand up and say anti-gay things and be conservative and be Mr. Good Guy, and then when something happens that points you out and puts you in a place with the exact business that you aim to shut down, it kind of makes it seem like I need this to go away and I need it to go away quickly," said Bennett.

The Houston Press publishes some more of Berry's bloviating about subjects like the Grammys and the Ground Zero mosque.

Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 3:09 PM EST by in Gay Bar, Houston, News, Texas | Permalink | Comments (48)

Proposition 8 Ruling Analysis: The DOMA Factor


DumpdomaMeanwhile, at the Legion of Doom... the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) is dying a slow death from a thousand cuts. The Ninth Circuit's decision in Perry v. Brown is a great victory and a fine statement for equality, but so was Judge Tauro's decision in Gill v. OPM, the Justice Department's brief in Golinski v. OPM, and the Obama Administration's refusal to defend DOMA because it fails the heightened scrutiny test the President thinks is appropriate for judging any state action  that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation.

That begs the question: Which case -- Gill or Perry -- would be a better vehicle for advancing the cause of gay rights at the Supreme Court? And, why? 

AFTER THE JUMP, I try to think like a lawyer and a legal strategist and consider the questions up for review, the political context, and the positives and negatives of a progressive or traditionalist decision. I argue that though Gill offers the tidiest and least politically risky case for the current Supreme Court, the narrow holding in Perry opens a clear avenue for victory.


By restricting marriage at the federal level to only those unions between one man and one woman, DOMA Section 3 denies legally married gay couples access to a plethora of federal rights and entitlements that come with marriage. Therefore, Nancy Gill, a Postal Service employee, could not add her spouse as a beneficiary under Ms. Gill's enrollment in the Federal Employees Health Benefits program (FEHB) or as a covered person under the government's vision and dental plan or under her employee flexible spending account. The Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD) filed suit -- Gill v. Office of Personnel Management (D. Mass. 2010) -- challenging DOMA Section 3 as a clear denial of equal protection, due process, and the prerogatives of the States.

In 2010, Judge Joseph Tauro of the District of Massachusetts found for Ms. Gill, declaring DOMA unconstitutional under a rational basis standard:

As irrational prejudice plainly never constitutes a legitimate government interest, this court must hold that Section 3 of DOMA as applied to Plaintiffs violates the equal protection principles embodied in the Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution (Gill, slip op. at 38).

Since that momentous decision, the Department of Justice defended, but then withdrew its defense of DOMA in accordance with President Obama's view that (a) heightened scrutiny, rather than rational basis, should apply to DOMA, and (b) DOMA fails under that standard. The Republican-controlled House stepped in to defend DOMA, but not without its own side drama. Briefs -- from GLAD and the DOJ in opposition to DOMA, and from the House in support -- were filed at the First Circuit at the end of 2011, so we expect a decision in the coming months.

While this was going on, Perry v. Brown was not challenging DOMA, but directly attacking a ban on marriage recognition for gays, making its way through the federal courts of the Ninth Circuit, culminating in February 7's powerful statement of gay equality:

It will not do to say that Proposition 8 was intended only to disapprove of same-sex marriage, rather than to pass judgment of same-sex couples as people. Just as the criminalization of "homosexual conduct ... is an invitation to subject homosexual persons to discrimination in both the public and private spheres," so too does the elimination of the right to use the official designation of "marriage" for the relationships of committed same-sex couples send a message  that gays and lesbians are of lesser worth as a class -- indeed, that the enjoy a lesser societal status (Perry, slip op. at 73, internal citations omitted).

DomaBoth cases are practically impactful: If Prop 8 is struck down, many more thousands of gay couples can marry; if DOMA is struck down, Ms. Gill and her wife and families like theirs can share in important federal rights that may amount to several tens of thousands of dollars. One commentator told me that "marriage at the states means nothing if DOMA's still there" because DOMA denies the rights associated with marriage. However, a gay rights advocate countered: "Not only does marriage mean more than the stuff the federal government gives us for being married, but without marriage rights at the state level, DOMA is almost superfluous."

I think they're both a little right and a little wrong; both DOMA and bans on marriage need to go. But, which do we want to go first?

Gill (and its companion case, Massachusetts v. Department of Health and Human Services (D. Mass. 2010), and the other DOMA cases of Pedersen, Windsor, and Golinski) seems to offer a more attractive first shot at the Supreme Court for three reasons, two of which are political or strategic, one of which is legal. I will make the argument for each and then challenge them.

I encourage you to evaluate the arguments and decide for yourself, but I believe that none of the arguments are that persuasive.

1. DOMA creates stark examples of clear discrimination about tangible "stuff" that people understand.

At their core, the DOMA cases are about access to state largesse -- health care benefits, survivorship rights, preferred tax filing status, and so on -- which provide obvious examples fo discrimination without the baggage of the word "marriage." That's really two arguments in one. First, Gill does not seek a right to marry; Ms. Gill is already married. And, it is that fact that puts her second-class status on display: all married couples, except only those gay ones, receive all the important benefits she is denied. Second, any case about "marriage" brings with it historical, religious, and moral complications that can obscure the pure legal question of discrimination.

Then again, the DOMA cases, like Perry, are about more than just stuff, money, and entitlements. DOMA enshrines discrimination in federal law, declaring that same-sex marriages are not worthy of the same honor as opposite-sex marriages. That is only partially a problem of attendant rights; DOMA is a powerful statement of inequality, and one that teaches our children that gays are less worthy of respect. In that way, the DOMA cases bring as much baggage to the Court as Perry.

2. DOMA is losing support much faster than bans on gay marriage, giving the Court political cover for overturning the law.

As I have argued elsewhere, DOMA is being attacked from all sides. There are legal challenges running through the First, Second, and Ninth Circuits; twenty three bankruptcy judges in Los Angeles declared DOMA unconstitutional; Democratic Senators have proposed and held hearings on the Respect for Marriage Act (ROMA), which would repeal DOMA; former DOMA sponsors, such as Bob Barr of Georgia, have come out publicly against the law now that they have had more than 15 years to think about it; the Obama Administration has all but halted the deportation of legally married gay bi-national couples despite DOMA's blockade of partner visas for gay foreign national spouses; and, most importantly, President Obama has declared DOMA unconstitutional and put the weight of the Executive behind the effort to overturn the odious law. This context matters because as many Court watchers know, the Justices are usually loathe to step too far out in front of public opinion. Political and legal developments like these give the Court political cover and may push cautious or conservative (little c) judges to act with more confidence.

But, bans on marriage are also losing support. Latest polling shows that anywhere between 51 to 54 percent of Americans support marriage recognition for gay couples, and since Judge Walker's original decision in Perry in August 2010, New York has joined a growing club of marriage equality states that will soon welcome Washington State, may welcome Maryland and Illinois, and would welcome New Jersey if it weren't for Governor Christie. It seems as if politics is catching up to equality in the court of public opinion.

3. The DOMA cases offer mutliple avenues for the Supreme Court to declare DOMA unconstitutional.

Gill and Massachusetts v. HHS offer the Court supposedly progressive and conservative ways to overturn DOMA, and Judge Tauro used them all. He found that DOMA violates the Equal Protection Clause because, even under the rational basis standard, DOMA had no rational connection to any conceivable government interest. The bare desire to harm gays as a group cannot satisfy that requirement. Because Judge Tauro decided Gill on these grounds, he declined to address the appropriate standard of review for discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. He also held that by forcing states to discriminate against its citizens, it deputized states into the business of equal protection violations. Even more anathematic to small government conservatives, DOMA violates the Tenth Amendment, which reserves for the States all those powers not enumerated in the Constitution.

Marriage law -- including what constitutes a valid marriage -- has always been the exclusive purview of the States and by creating a federal definition of marriage for the first time, the federal government was encroaching upon the prerogatives of the States without Constitutional authorization. These arguments for DOMA's unconstitutionality run the spectrum from liberal to conservative, making it more likely that the Court could agree to strike down the law. Of course, these conservative arguments may come back and haunt liberals in the future cases (including challenges to the health care law and other cases involving federal power), so Gill may warn us to be careful what we wish for. However, given the Obama Administration's role in the DOMA cases and the DOJ's position on heightened scrutiny, these cases offer a more obvious opportunity for the Court to resolve the standard of review appropriate for sexual orientation discrimination.

But, the narrowness of the Perry decision could also unite liberals and conservatives on the Court. Some experts argue that by deciding Perry on the ground that it effectuated a taking away of rights from a particular group on the basis of pure animus, the Ninth Circuit made it less likely that the Supreme Court would even take the case; after all, Perry does not look like the usual case for which the Supreme Court grants review (no circuit split, no outstanding unresolved constitutional issue that the case requires be addressed in order for full resolution, and so on).

This would be a great victory for marriage recognition advocates. I also think that Judge Reinhardt decided Perry on an acceptable, but not the best, interpretation of Romer. The Supreme Court could think like I do and quibble with Perry's use of Romer and all the issues Judge Reinhardt left unresolved, reversing and returning the case to the same panel for a more comprehensive decision. By that time, the political arguments above may well tilt even further toward a broadly worded rejection of gay marriage bans.

This legal argument distinguishing Perry and Gill, while not a slam dunk, tilts in favor of pushing forward with Gill. The Court's denial of certiorari in Perry would be a great victory, a victory made that much sweeter by a positive decision from the Supreme Court in Gill.

What do you think? Which case would you like to see resolved first? Why?


Ari Ezra Waldman is a 2002 graduate of Harvard College and a 2005 graduate of Harvard Law School. After practicing in New York for five years and clerking at a federal appellate court in Washington, D.C., Ari is now on the faculty at California Western School of Law in San Diego, California. His research focuses on gay rights and the First Amendment. Ari will be writing weekly posts on law and various LGBT issues.

Follow Ari on Twitter at @ariezrawaldman.

Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 1:30 PM EST by in Ari Ezra Waldman, California, DOMA, Gay Marriage, Law - Gay, LGBT, News, Proposition 8 | Permalink | Comments (40)

Maryland GOP Delegate Makes Surprise Switch, Says He'll Vote 'Yes' on Marriage Equality

In what is a still uncertain yet expected to be close vote, the Maryland House of Delegates is set to begin debate on a marriage equality bill later this afternoon. The timing of the vote is unknown.

Earlier today, Delegate Wade Kach, who was a 'no' vote as recently as last weekend, says he has changed his mind, the Baltimore Sun reports.

KachDel. Wade Kach's statement:

Over the span of my career in the Maryland General Assembly, I have worked hard to take thoughtful, considered positions on laws that affect the rights and liberties of our friends and neighbors. My constituents sent me to Annapolis to represent them and use my best judgment. They did not send me to sit in judgment of the lives of others."

As a proud member of the party of Lincoln, I believe that we as legislators should be more concerned with relieving the tax burden of families than telling them how to behave in their own homes. Like so many others, my thoughts on the issue of civil marriage have evolved over the course of recent months as a result of much reflection and listening to good people on both sides of this issue. Instrumental to my decision are the enhanced protections for churches, clergy, and faith leaders in my community and in communities around the state."

While no one event or conversation prompted me to come to this decision, I was significantly moved by the testimony of families -- who are raising children in a loving environment and deserve every right to enjoy the same protections and responsibilities that our laws provide for others."

Tomorrow I will cast my green vote with great confidence that this bill protects religious freedom and that the issue will ultimately be decided by the voters of our state."

Kach is the second GOP delegate to back the marriage equality bill.

Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 12:55 PM EST by in 2012 Election, Gay Marriage, Maryland, News | Permalink | Comments (7)

New Jersey House to Vote on Marriage Equality Bill: Listen LIVE


The New Jersey Assembly is set to debate and vote on a marriage equality bill at 1 pm.

Governor Chris Christie has vowed to take "swift action" to veto the bill, which has passed the Senate and is expected to pass the Assembly. 54 votes are required for a veto-proof majority, with 41 required to pass the bill.

Listen LIVE HERE starting at 1 pm.

Posted Feb. 16,2012 at 12:50 PM EST by in Gay Marriage, New Jersey, News | Permalink | Comments (5)


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