1. Robert says

    FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!!! Why does every freakin’ video featuring a gay man, have to be shirtless?!?! You guys (gays) wanna be taken seriously…PUT ON A FUCKIN’SHIRT!!!!! GEESH!!

  2. Henry Holland says

    [puts on bar ‘tude]

    1. Mixing gin with Jack Daniels is an abomination. Using Seagram’s gin instead of Bombay Sapphire or Beefeater’s compounds the abomination.

    2. Smoking. No no no no no no no. I don’t want to kiss your ashtray mouth, no matter how much mouthwash or breath mints you use.

    3. How much longer will that scruffy look be popular? Spend a couple bucks at a 99 Cents store for a pack of razors and shaving cream or grow that fuzz out in to a real beard.

    4. His cat is cute. [/bar ‘tude]

  3. uffda says

    This was poignant. Sweet dumbass goes to a bar, feels rejected, accepts it and goes home to his cat.

    Now then he should get busy and start doing something, almost anything. Forget about being gay (just for a while) and take a class, take six classes (cooking, carpentry, computer stuff, language, art, outdoor adventure…on and on) and make friends with everybody. In no time he’d have a life, he’d be so busy he wouldn’t know which way to go. He’d have to learn to slug it out through the gray days but he can do that.

    Do it fella…do anything in particular that makes you feel good, think it first, and insist on it. You’re as sweet as can be and there are lots of you. Give us another video in a year when you have turned your life around because you DECIDED to.

  4. AJ says

    This was cute and funny. I can relate. I remember my 20s. Loved the kitty in heat. And it’s nice to have a break from the “Homophobe of the Day” posts usually on here. This actually made me laugh and smile.

  5. Alan says

    Finally! A video that makes me smile!

    Every damn day on this site we get to wallow around in our own self-pity because we’re just soooooo mistreated. Poor little ol us. I’m so damn sick and tired of playing the gay victim.

    Time to end the pity party, go outside and enjoy life and shut up about how everyone ‘hates’ us.

    More videos like this PLEASE.

  6. Lance says

    Very funny and — as I think some commenters here missed — very pointed. (For example, I agree about kissing smokers, but I think that may have been exactly his point.) Best supporting actor: the dog!

  7. Sargon Bighorn says

    Rejection happens ladies. Regret is self inflicted. If you see a guy that turns your crank ACT ON IT. Yeah yeah he’ll reject you (see video) but if you do nothing, you will regret it for ever. Don’t become a Bitter Queen, become a DO Something Man.

  8. Apparatus says

    Funny, but would have been way funnier coming from a more normal looking guy. This guy would never ever have a hard time finding a man in any gar bar in the world, and looks good with his shirt off, so it kind of comes off as fake.

  9. Zlick says

    Totally cute and adorable video. The guy has some talents and a wry sense of humor, and he’s a cutie pie. So I’m off to watch that other video of his linked to above, and maybe anything else he’s done. Funny and cute. Total win.

  10. Sometipsforlife says

    Thanks for watching. Here are some useful side-notes, addressing several concerns:

    1) Scruff will never die out, as it’s been around since dawn of man.
    2) I didn’t know cigarettes smell, this is alarming.
    3) Robert, I took your advice a minute into the video and put on a shirt.
    4) I will post a video again in a year once I have a life, because going to the gay bar once a month and making a silly video about it is all I’m about.
    5) Seriously though, thanks for watching.

  11. Brad says


    You’re effing hot. Please do more shirtless (love your chest and pit and facial hair).

    Excuse me while I go pleasure myself to your pics now.

  12. Alex says

    This reminds me of when I was living in San Fran and used to chat up guys by asking for a cigarette even tho I didnt smoke.
    Think Robbie is hot as hell, should have no problem getting a date. Too bad hes a yank tho, they are full of issues.

  13. Zlick says

    Haha, I know, right? The guy who gave him “how to get a life” advice? WTF? Was it not apparent this was a video with humorous intent and not a confessional? Maybe the Get a Life Advice was also sarcastic and tongue-in-cheek, but it didn’t come across that way in writing.

    Some of his other vids are cute, too – but I didn’t have the patience to watch too many of ’em (especially since none of the few I watched held a candle to this one).

    Anyway, keep up the good work. If you really ARE an aspiring filmmaker, best to move yourself out here to L.A. and give it a real shot (heheh, just sayin’).

  14. Cyg says

    Scruffy is always going to look good on most men, as long as they have dark hair. Looks better than a giant beard to me. Anyway, this video is for everyone, since we’ve all felt like outcasts at least once at a club. I’m surprised he didn’t diss the bar creepers. I have to deal with them all the time — and I mean real creepers, not just people who aren’t my type.

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