1. MateoM says

    “what would you do?” Tie the guy up while he was still asleep as quickly as possible and call the cops. Rape is terrible. Murder does not right a wrong.

  2. RONTEX says

    If he was drugged and raped, why didn’t he call the police, report it and have an exam as well as a blood test to detect drugs in his system? Let’s see if he tries to use the Gay Panic defense.

  3. Paul R says

    So a homeless guy who is clearly insane makes up a weird story and we’re supposed to be empathetic? I’ve been drugged at gay bars twice and saved in both cases by straight male strangers who essentially carried me home. Non-US citizens and straight guys often seem more caring than gay men, and no I’m not self-loathing.

  4. Kev C says

    MateoM, I don’t know who that is, or who you are. But if you remember the 60s and 70s, hippies supported black, feminist and environmental causes, but not gay causes.

  5. MIke says

    I knew when I read the man’s obituary that he was a nice 70-something gay man who workers described as conscientious who made the mistake of picking up this loser and bringing him to his home.

  6. Paul R says

    @MateoM: Note the use of the qualifier “often.” Not the same as “always.” I live in SF, I was drugged by gay men in the Castro, and I was helped by people who weren’t gay. That’s my experience; it’s not saying that I hate gay men or they’re all evil. I’ve dated a few, after all.

    Yes it was a broad generalization. Sorry. But I lost my job because of one incident (went to the holiday party afterward and acted kooky) and got a concussion that required a hospital stay after another.

  7. ratbastard says

    This Kai character HUSTLES. This wasn’t the first time he went home with an older gay man. Probably has other hustles,too. He’s just a ‘charming’ [on the surface, guarantee you he has a dark side, and people will come forward about how they were afraid of him] sociopathic hustler. Anyone who has known such guys instantly recognize it in others like Kai. The dead man made a fatal mistake picking up this roughtrade. Just my opinion.

    Apparently cops are now checking a series of unsolved murders along the route he took traveling across the country. He may turn out to be a prolific serial killer.

  8. modern meet says

    Wake up you old f**ks! Young dudes are not interested in your ass. They will not be your boyfriend, your f**k buddy, your lover or your roommate unless you can pay for it. Still, paying for it can get your ass killed.

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