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A look back at today's top stories


The loser in a recent Dallas City Council election has proven that the electorate definitely made the right choice after he left an insane, profanity-laced and homophobic voicemail for a local reporter who didn't mention that sexuality of his opponent. Another promising political career down the tubes. For the second time this year a lesbian couple has been denied a wedding cake by a bakery in Oregon. And John Boehner wants to know who is going to jail over the recent IRS scandal. 



At least one member of the boyband The Wanted says that he would be open to getting it on with a guy. Just one? The movie adaptation of Stephen Sondheim's Into the Woods continues to come together with Jake Gyllenhaal and Chris Pine being the most recent actors who are reportedly in talks.

There is a new HBO show to get excited about; this time from the director of the gay-themed British indie "Weekend". Speaking of HBO, Steven Soderbergh says that some people may have a tough time seeing Damon and Douglas having sex in his new Liberace biopic for the cable network. Also Isabella Rossellini continues to show off her nutty side with the latest installment of her "Green Porno"




New polls in both Michigan and Virginia show a major uptick in support for marriage equality with over half of voters identifying as pro-equality in both states. And Lawrence O'Donnell sat down with Minnesota Governor Mark Dayton to discuss his state's passage of marriage equality.



A waitress at a diner in France recently made a very public announcement about her sexuality. We support her announcement, even if the way she went about it seems a little odd. 

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The Military's Sexual Assault Problem Affects Men and Women, Gay and Straight


Military-Sexual-Assault-3The United States military has a rape problem, and it's nothing new.

Earlier this week, two women -- Rebekah Havrilla and BriGette McCoy -- appeared before a Senate subcommittee chaired by New York Senator Kirsten Gillibrand to recount their experiences of being raped and sexually harassed during their time in the military. They were joined by one man, Brian Lewis, who testified that he was raped by a senior officer in the Air Force while serving on the island of Guam. It was the first time a male victim appeared before Congress to discuss his sexual assault.

Their heartbreaking stories of abuse and command inaction are bad enough on their own; in the context of a military in which rape, sexual assault, and harassment are more common than morning coffee, they are downright enraging. According to the military's own report, the number of service members anonymously reporting a sexual assault jumped more than 30% in the past two years. In 2012, more than 26,000 troops reported experiencing "unwanted sexual contact," a significant jump from the 19,300 who reported such victimization in 2010. What's more, 10,700 of the 19,300 victims in 2010 were men. And that covers only those incidents reported to authorities; men are far less likely to report being victims of sexual assault, especially in a macho, testosterone-filled environment like the military. The real numbers are probably shockingly high.

P erhaps as high -- if not higher -- as they were in 1991, when 83 women and 7 men were assaulted during the Tailhook convention in Las Vegas in September 1991. Even that scandal, which was supposed to change the military forever, did not result in a single prosecution. The bankruptcy of the military justice system came back into the news recently when an Air Force general tossed out the conviction of an officer after the officer had been convicted of aggravated sexual assault of a woman. 

This unique and dangerous facet of the military criminal justice system -- the near boundless discretion given to the so-called "convening authority" to sign off on, reject, or modify the sentence of a general court-martial -- is complicit in the growing epidemic of sexual crimes in the military today. But it is not alone. 

Let's discuss the elements of military law that are contributing to this problem,

Male-on-male rape has as little to do with homosexuality as male-on-female rape has to do with heterosexuality. Rape is about power, domination, and the utter disrespect of the victim, whatever gender he or she might be. The epidemic of rape and sexual assault in the military is a product of several factors: an old boys network, unchecked masculine bravado, and a willfully blind leadership, just to name a few.

The supporting role played by current military criminal law is a more pressing, more easily rectified problem. And yet it is continually overlooked.

AfewgoodmenMilitary criminal justice looks a lot like civilian criminal justice. There are judges and juries (the latter are called "panels"); there are prosecutors and defense attorneys, the latter of whom are free and guaranteed to all criminal defendants. There are rules of evidence and a strong exclusionary rule, which prevents the admission of evidence gleaned from unlawful searches. (For a surprisingly accurate depiction of a military trial, re-watch or re-read Aaron Sorkin's A Few Good Men).

There are several differences between civilian and military justice that provide dangerous support to the epidemic of sexual assaults in the armed forces. In today's column, let's discuss the role of the "convening authority."

Courts-martial -- the official name for military criminal trials -- have to be convened by a commander in a process utterly and completely foreign to civilian lawyers, let alone everyone else. If military investigators at 'Jane Doe Air Base' have evidence that a service member has committed a crime, whether they obtain that evidence through their own sting operation or when the victim reports it, they have to gather their findings and bring it to the prosecutor. But before the prosecutor can bring any charges, he needs clearance to "convene" a court-martial from the Air Base commander, a general or lieutenant-general, usually.

That same "convening authority" has the right to look at the result of the prosecution -- a 20 year sentence and dishonorable discharge for aggravated sexual assault, for example -- and cross off or modify whatever he doesn't like. If he thinks 20 years is a little too much, he can slash it to 10, 5, or nothing at all. If he thinks a dishonorable discharge is not warranted, he can honorably discharge the duly convicted felon or keep him in the ranks. The convening authority can even wipe the record clean.

This seems outrageous and, indeed it is.

UcmjThat we have a convening authority with this kind of power is a product of a history in which most military law was not conducted by military lawyers at all. For much of American history and especially before 1950, military criminal law was ad hoc. In the Revolutionary and Civil Wars, the "process" of justice for deserters and criminals was swift and localized to the unit. Before World War I, American conflicts were small enough to allow us to limp along that way, but a truly world war -- with a new fighting force numbering well into the millions and the international scrutiny along with America's European involvements -- made the anti-system of justice untenable. By 1950, the formalizing process finally culminated in the Uniform Code of Military Justice (UCMJ), a kind of bible for military lawyers that contained every crime, every defense, and even examples for lay persons to understand.

The UCMJ needed explanatory examples because, until recently, military criminal justice was a layman's game. Prosecutors came first, but judges, defense "attorneys", investigators, and panel members were all military officers with a week's long legal training, if that. The convening authority was an attempt to provide experienced oversight to an otherwise unprofessional system that could result in injustice.

But, military lawyers have changed while military law hasn't. Our lawyers are highly trained; our military judges are all J.D.s and former attorneys themselves. The judges who sit on the military's appellate courts are, for the most part, as well trained and intelligent as judges populating our state and federal appellate courts. (Full disclosure: I had the honor of working alongside one of those smart and qualified judges on the military's highest court, the Court of Appeals of the Armed Forces.).

With the increased professionalization of the Judge Advocate General (JAG) corps, the convening authority has not only outlived its usefulness, it also helps perpetuate the dangerous ad hoc old boys' network and undermines service member rights.

Consider for a moment the generational problem posed by convening authorities, most of whom are likely to be generals or other high-ranking officers that are more likely than their younger officers to have issues with women and out gays serving. One of the commanding officers during the Tailhook scandal told one of the victims that she should have expected to get assaulted because "that's what [a woman] get[s] for walking down the hall with a bunch of drunk naval aviators." That offensive sentiment, if in the hands of a convening authority, could result in either the refusal to authorize a court-martial in the first place or erasing any sentence after the fact. Remarkably, although that would violate our sense of justice, it would not break any military law.

The mere notion of a convening authority is offensive to due process. He is not only an untrained eye standing in judgment of a judicial process, he is the defendant's commanding officer! He has a relationship with the defendant and whether that relationship is friendly or hostile, he remains an interested party. He may object to his billiard buddy getting punished for getting too aggressive with a women. Or, he may want to manipulate the justice system to sideline a rival for a promotion. Whatever his motives, even if they are well-meaning, he is a biased participant in a justice system that requires detached objectivity.

We must eliminate the role of the "convening authority." I encourage you to call or write to Senator Gillibrand, one of our community's greatest allies, and urge her to move on this reform.

In my next column, I will discuss how the UCMJ itself contributes to the problem of male-on-male and male-on-female sexual assaults in the military. Stay tuned.


Ari Ezra Waldman is the Associate Director of the Institute for Information Law and Policy and a professor at New York Law School and is concurrently getting his PhD at Columbia University in New York City. He is a 2002 graduate of Harvard College and a 2005 graduate of Harvard Law School. Ari writes weekly posts on law and various LGBT issues.

Posted May. 15,2013 at 5:42 PM EST by in Ari Ezra Waldman, Law - Gay, LGBT, Military, News | Permalink | Comments (21)

News: Bruce LaBruce, Flaming Saddles, Nick Denton, Omaha

RoadGawker head honcho Nick Denton to marry boyfriend Derren Washington.

Flex_francoRoadJames Franco flexes for GQ.

RoadZoe Saldana thinks she might be a lesbian but does not know the meaning of 'androgynous' (link work-unfriendly).

RoadBrad Pitt praises Angelina Jolie mastectomy decision: "We managed to find moments to laugh together. We knew this was the right thing to do for our family and that it would bring us closer. And it has."

RoadAnti-gay Councilwoman Jean Stothert defeats LGBT ally Mayor Jim Suttle, vows to repeal Omaha's new gay anti-discrimination law.

RoadSenator Mark Warner launches petition to urge Supreme Court to overturn DOMA.

RoadNYC gay bar Flaming Saddles shut down by Health Department: "Inspectors also found 'filth flies' in the bar, food that was 'contaminated' and 'cross-contaminated,' and that the kitchen's supervisor didn't have proper food protection certification. It racked up a total of 61 violation points, according to the inspection."

RoadJoss Whedon returning to TV.

RoadChris Evans flaunts his massive biceps.

BarberRoadLiberty Counsel's Matt Barber tweets heinous cartoon of gay man tricking Boy Scout into sex.

RoadBike sharing raises hackles of New Yorkers: "In recent weeks, hundreds of stations have sprouted in Lower Manhattan and Brooklyn — empty husks sprawled 30 or 50 spaces long on city sidewalks and streets, anticipating rows of bicycles that will soon protrude from the kiosk slots. The critics say the kiosks are a blight. They clash with the character of residential areas of the West Village or Fort Greene, Brooklyn. They are already magnets for pigeons, garbage bags and dogs in need of relief."

RoadLady Gaga announced as musical director for Versace show.

RoadBruce LaBruce's new take on Susan Sontag's 1964 essay 'Notes on Camp': "My hope is that camp will be re-politicized, reinvigorated and not just used as commodity fetish for a bunch of boring, capitalistic publicity hogs to make endless profit from. I mean, what could be more camp than Justin Bieber?"

RoadMatt Bomer is back on the White Collar set.

RoadQ&A with Daft Punk's secret weapon: producer Todd Edwards.

CatchingfireRoadA new official Hunger Games: Catching Fire poster and a fan-made trailer.

RoadLegislation outlawing homophobic discrimination on Isle of Man fast-tracked after lesbian couple is prevented from renting a house.

RoadFrankmusik unveils new video "Chasing Shadows".

RoadGay Dallas student barred from running for Prom Queen: “I wear foundation, I fill in my eyebrows, I take care of myself how a female should and I mean the king’s title is more masculine and the queen is someone who rules with a gentle hand and that’s how I am."

RoadJohn Waters is the biggest Belieber.

RoadWhen a gay husband is better than none: "Xiao Qiong is what's known as a 'tongqi,' which translates as 'wife of a homosexual,' but she never uses that word in public. It is not an offensive term, but she would be humiliated if everyone knew, because getting married is more important than anything else in life. She had dreamed about her wedding day ever since she was a little girl, and she had had her perfect ceremony planned down to the last detail. It would be at the seaside, and instead of wearing a red qipao, the traditional one-piece Chinese bridal dress, she would be radiant in a white bridal gown with a long train, just like a princess or "the models in Vogue." In her fantasy she would take off her shoes and dance with her husband on the sand as the sun slowly set over the water. That had been her plan. Ever since she was little, she had done everything she could so that one day she would be that barefoot girl on the beach, her white veil fluttering in the breeze. In the end, reality turned out to be just the opposite."

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Former Rep. Jim Kolbe (R-AZ) to Marry Partner in D.C. This Weekend

Former Arizona Rep. Jim Kolbe (R-AZ) will marry his partner of eight years, Hector Alfonso, in D.C. on Saturday, the Daily Star reports:

Kolbe"We're very happy," he said. "We're very committed."

The two have talked about marrying for a long time, Kolbe said. After sorting out Alfonso's immigration status, Kolbe said the two are ready to marry.

They plan a simple ceremony at the Cosmos Club, officiated by a minister, with readings and prayers...

Kolbe said it's "unfortunate" that Arizona doesn't yet recognize same-sex marriage, saying everyone should be able to find the happiness he's found and be able to marry the person of his or her choice.

Kolbe recently urged the Senate Judiciary Comittee to adopt gay-inclusive immigration reform, telling them of his plans to marry this weekend.

Said Kolbe:

We are immensely fortunate that Hector has now secured an investment visa that allows him to remain here with me. Many other couples, however, are not as fortunate. Even if they, like us, have a marriage, civil union or life-long commitment to each other, their ability to secure a permanent solution that would allow them to build a home, family or business together is elusive and difficult to realize. It shouldn’t be that way, and this Committee has an opportunity to fix this problem.

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John Boehner Wants to Know 'Who's Going to Jail' for IRS Scandal: VIDEO


As the Justice Department opens a criminal investigation into the IRS scandal, House Speaker John Boehner demands to know "who's going to jail."


Posted May. 15,2013 at 2:41 PM EST by in John Boehner, News | Permalink | Comments (42)

In Sharp Shift, 56 Percent of Virginia Voters Support Gay Marriage


56 percent of Virginia voters support same-sex marriage, the Washington Post reports, up from 46 percent just two years ago.

Posted May. 15,2013 at 2:29 PM EST by in Gay Marriage, News, Virginia | Permalink | Comments (20)


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